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Annabelle, Poor self confidence
(build this right > priority), Temp
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Annabelle
Biases
- Choice supportive bias
- Confirmation bias
- Availability bias
Emotion control / defense mechanisms
- Runs to her religion to feel comfortable with people having the same belief as her so she doesn't have to confront the possibility of her whole belief to be a joke
Belief systems
- Discrimination (religion, homophobic)
- Confirmation bias (internet)
- Social proof bias
- Afterlife
- Obscurantism (sneaky psychological trap)
- Tries to convert me
Critical thinking
- Listening
- Denial
- Logic / reasoning
- Evidence
- Keep track
- Ignorant/ naïve (to realize)
- Metaphors
- Never question herself
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Temp
- "You don't understand me, no one does. you're so dumb" every time it doesn't go her way
- Should have died
- Complaining about about how she's not like before as if it's my fault (no surf because of me)
- I'm not helping her
- Always finding different excuses
- Never feels good and chases an utopia (I'll be better in that country, etc.)
- Constantly tries to prove how she was not like this before without realizing that the problem is to do something right now
- Won't do anything even when presented with solutions
- Doesn't want to consider the fact that she could be avoiding facing her fears / weaknesses
- "Can't put me in boxes !"
- She'd rather say "We're just different" and put us on the same level to justify the fact of not digging it to understand what's really going on
- "We were never real friends. I honestly regret meeting you too." to feel better about the fact that I wont help you anymore
- "Why do you guys (family) have to be so bitchy" They just told me that I'm better when you're not around
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Surfing & activities
jiu jitsu, piano, guitar, french, workout,
study
In your bubble
- do not care about anyone (ex : Laura message) when it doesn't go your way
- do not listen nor try to really understand people
- have strong beliefs and not willing to check up on anything
- can't think rationally
- criticizes everyone but herself, everyone is wrong and she's right (blame it on me : surf)
"What did I do to you ?!"
- Blaming it all on me (surf, neck, being upset...)
- Insulting my family (acting like "bitches")
- Get mad for making sense of a problem
- Shouting absurdities (you don't help me, you should've died, you're crazy, you never drive me around, you're mean, you've been sent to test my faith, we were never real friends, I honestly regret meeting you, YOU go see a therapist, blackmail -> if you don't give me the mind map, I'll never see you again, give me the money back, leave my family alone, floods me with messages & nonsense, I'm a lesson giver)
- Mess up my plans
- does everything for me to get away from her / be disgusted from her (not a man, talking shit, stuck up, narcissistic, lack of respect, patronizing, arrogant, poor romantic skills, rude to Jesus, boring, insensitive, ignorant, bland...)
What I did for you
- Papers & passport
- Getting you out of your family & Finding places to live
- Get you to all the places you need to go (bank, shopping, clothes, papers, mairie, restaurants, surf, friends)
- Cuddle you & comfort you & giving you the love that I have
- Trying to help you by giving you solutions to your problems (study, place, Tim). Taking your problems as if their mine
- Teaching you stuff (guitar, piano, rubik's, juggling, french, grappling, providing you tools to think better)
- Listen to you, try to understand you as much as I can and yet I still get bashed because "I know nothing about you"
- giving you advice when you're kicking me in the face