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Value, Making others Qualify - Coggle Diagram

- - - - unique and mysterious
        
        2nd-3rd follow up question
- - - - self deprecation, untrustworthy, unpopular, unhealthy (drug user)
    - - incompetence, leveling, awkward, boring, uncalibrated (monkey person)
    - - self justification, makes excuses, try-hard, jealous (person in hell)
    - - neediness, insecurty, agenda, timidity, creepy (child slave)
- - - - Step1: High value Step 2: Her blueprint (blueprint in head)
  - - - Guess and check
- - - - look your best (wearing a suit, pulling down tie)
      - One thing you can do to be attractive?
    - - willing to be noticed (standing in the middle of class)
      - saying what's on your mind (cautious hero)
    - - what you're doing is right (Naruto)
      - one thing you were insecured about to make yourself assured
    - - great magnifier (popular anime guy being nice, girls notice)
    - - Willingness to take risks (gambler)
  - - - client's word is more than yous
      - imitating that not all can handle the higher product
      - making it exclusive
        
        abundance=interest at heart
      - sell what it will do to them first :(tell them their desire future)
- - - - excuse to flip thru pics
- - - - We notice value or threats (Cindy vortex runs in w/ crocodiles chasing her)
      - Normal is boring (I run from my school desk, some people get eaten)
      - high + and - emo are memorable (Cindy massively insults you)
    - - Super Value=actions, conveyance, personality, etc.
      - Girl having an emotional reaction to high-value guy is
        not a choice (Meet the WOG who is in awe)
        
        Conscious and comfort factors help rationalization after an emotion or decision (You calm her down and she gets more attracted)
- - - - When to be hard/easy on yourself (Sitting in thought)
        
        self talk
        
        hard on efforts, easy on results
        
        the best you can is good enough
      - made, being a mistake
        
        internal attribution to for successes
        
        external attribution for failures
        
        allow the winner affect (powering up)
      - self love (hippie hugging herself)
        
        you deserve the success you get (Standing strong)
        
        you deserve the right to try (RE:Zero Subaru)
      - you control the long term results and process (sitting with a dirty face)
      - positive reframing (gratitude living)
        
        ex. take everything neg and reframe it pos
      - self talk
        
        you are most intimate conversation (balled up fist on your chest)
        
        you know and judge yourself the most (judge judy)
        
        if you treat yourself bad, its no wonder you get treated bad (Boddey)
    - - flow is a immersed in what you're doing (video games)
      - State: good mood and attitude (music while jogging)
      - Don't be dependant on State and Flow
        
        can't fully control both
      - Can control both by focusing on right things and actions (Sitting with focus)
    - - inner gamer>behavior>results>inner... (Cycle graph)
    - - intrinsic value
      - attitude (abundant, less judgmental, etc.)
- - - - challenge yourself to not qualify yourself
      - challenge, tease them
      - talk about them, no 3rd parties (Interpersonal connective thread)
    - - Be self reliant (Survivalist)
      - decide to win, including sacrifice or winning ugly (Deku at tournament)
      - grow up (hardened man)
      - drop excuses (dropping a stack of pots)
    - - Not "shoulding" on yourself
        
        ex. reverse: should>in reality
        
        power of now
    - - relentless in gathering knowledge (Easter eggs hunt with books)
      - thinking in bets
        
        rationality is the best approach
    - - who they're conveying vs who they actually are (Person and their shadow)
        
        silly/ridiculous (girl with tongue out)
        
        insecure provoking compliment (adult teasing)
        
        looking too posed (Adriana Grande)