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self-control
non violence
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the attitude that came out that time was i dont care about you and how you are spoiling relationship, i dont care about how you treat me i will still be nice to you in turn encouraging you to be bad
what is the right way to have the boundary set up without cursing others and still have a strict boundary set up
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he did not shout or lose his control but he was putting a boundary and not allowing people to act badly he protected us and was silent in that then he finally decided and let them go with the money that he did not give so much he just gave what they can handle
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if victim, then why self control?
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retaliate
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this is what i missed
i should have taken it by force and then shouted back at her and asked her to move away and not come to that room and ask her to apologize and hit her and shown my anger to her that would have saved father but i did not protect him, then later i could have shown her kindness
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if someone feels intense love we automatically feel intense love this i missed so much i was just thinking of being a victim and i have been a victim because i thought that is waht is very noble and will give me greatest happiness
help someone , call someone they are going to call you
whoever has more will be given to him, whoever does not have whatever he has will also be taken from him
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if only i have the postive qualities of self confidence, imagination, self control, i will be given more
self control
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savings account
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i saved the money but i did not have a plan for it, so my family made a plan for it and others made a plan for it
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do not hate, but understand the reason for disagreement and profit by it
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no slander, or saying bad about someone or even revenge
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retaliate
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this is true some people make you do things by them first doing things for you so you are forced to do things for them
if she abuses me if i abuse back i go to her level, i become like her that i know because i say bad about her family and her friends and say bad about her and make her look so bad that i get to her level then she can easily dominate me by saying bad things it does not mean i have to listen to her i have to ask her to stop and then it should be stern and i should get away from it. Saying i dont want to listen to any nonnense and move away if she still does it have to put a strict boundary
change
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not only automobile
software
used to code, now frameworks do all the job and we just configure
used to push things manually now there is fully automation from checking in to pushing the code, merging it and deploying it without real machines
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same effort
more output?
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instead of him doing more time, since he is not an expert
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mama
he never went for tour alone, he could have done that but he did sharing, he took care of his mother and gave her a separate space,kept them separate
that could work here i can become rich and give them separate spaces and take care of them, will be a win win situation
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he never thought of looking for opportunity near where he was, there are more opportunities everytime
self-control
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when i was asked to join some college i did not submit because i knew that waiting and getting the good one was most important
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excess dangerous
self sacrifice
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i believed the fights were on not liking the food, not allowing time to pray god
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