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Relationship problems - Coggle Diagram

- - - - It gives me the feeling that my works is boring to you.
        
        work is something that I spend a long time in and I only know about work so I share about work. you say I never share things with you, I just never share the things you wanted,
        In fact, I did, I share my worries with you and that is not the things you wanted. I also share things with you, just not the things you wanted.
        
        I fact when I am doing this exercise, I feel that I really put in the effort to understand by documenting my thoughts.
        Have you think about the thought process and how to make our relationship better?
        
        You mentioned that you want to spend more time with me, but you are just want to spend time with me doing things that you wanted.
        I am a guy, I wanted to play games with you. To share the things I enjoyed with you.
        I know you enjoyed communicating and we have spend a lot of time communicating. Hence, shall we do things that I also enjoy like palying games?
    - - seek first to be understand then be understood
        
        Listen to me first - because I dont listen
        
        are you really listening to understand and not just listening to say something?
  - - - Treat work more serious that this relationship
        
        you will never be late for work
        
        you also bullshitly divert the topic by saying that you sister and I are starting to communicate.
        
        Remember to update your whereabout to colleagues
        
        it is time sensitive to know if you have reached home
        
        show empathy toward our colleagues - being more forgiving and more thankful
    - - understand how things work and to improve on it
  - - - If you are not ready and I do not really see a bright future in my works. I was at my worst and you toss me this problem.
        I really dont know how to react to it, therefore I did not do anything. I did not do anything might seem like I dont care, because in my mind, I wanted to end the realtionship on the thursaday, because there is simply too much stress for me to handle, I did not say anything because I do not want to do things that I will regret.
        
        I do not want you to feel that I am using breaking up as an excuse to divert your attention from the fact that we have a communication problem with our relationship
        
        I dont even talk more than a thousand words a day, so I do not know the quantity that I need put in order to make you feel that we communicated.
        
        becaue I communicate so little, the quality of how i communicate is bad. I wanted to change all this, hence, i can analysisng you , paying more attention to obsere and I want to improve this relationiship. I am putting in more effort into this than i did with my works. and that is a proof that I value more than I value my job.
        Shall we focus on how we can understand each other better, how we can make our relationship better
        
        Thinking and worring about it will not make the relationship better. we have to analysis it together and see what is wrong and how we can fix this.
        I promise you that if I were to breakup with you I will remain single forever, because being in a relatinsihp is really too much for me to handle, I cannot handle all this again. but I still want to try and build a home with you. I know it is hard, but I am willing to try, please support me and help me understand you and find a method, solution to make thing right.
        
        I feel that I am focusing on what you want, i am not giving myself sufficient attention. I want to rest and just do nothing, but when you are with me, we are always communicating and not doing nothing. can we do nothing for once.