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Unplugged Alpha Male - Coggle Diagram
Unplugged Alpha Male
Manage Testosterone Level
Reduce Stress
Reduce Screen-time & Blue Light
Remove Processed Food
Reduce Body Fat (Intermittent Fasting)
Add Vitamin D3
Avoid Electronic-Magnet Field
Getting "Da Girls" Online
If you are a 7/ 10, you’re going to have a harder time. But, good photography can be an equalizer to improve the optics of your value one point higher. However, don’t rely on trick photography, you still have work to do.
If you are a 6/ 10 or lower, then I’d discourage you from using dating apps. Instead, I’d encourage you to double-down on yourself and do the work needed to increase your value on the sexual marketplace.
If you are an 8/ 10 or higher, then congratulations, you’ve done the work. Continue to keep working on yourself and enjoy being one of the 20% of men that are spoilt for choice on dating apps.
How to Set-up Profile
Photography
Hire photographer, dress sharp with hairstyle, and location. Use Photofeeler to get rates and feedback from women
Three compositions: "groups of friends" photos, "the mystery" photos, "the aww!" pictures (puppies, cats, babies & cute things)
Bio
Far less important than photography but still covers some aspects of what not to do
Typical - "5'9'', a freedom man putting a dent in the universe. Great social circle of friends and adventurer, looking for a feminine beauty to join me."
Messaging
Use the ration 2:1 - Listen 2, talk 1
Embedded mismatched emotional triggers (or signals): cocky + humor, playful + joke, curious + mysterious, ball busting + provoke + playful, no + joke, no + vague yes, yes + vague no
Use it with the main goal of setting dates
Get the phone number first! No any social media as her thirsty betas orbiting & following her and donating attention & validation
The "Sniff" Test Date
First date should be 1 hour or less with a simple drink (you paid for both) to evaluate if she is worth your time and determine if she has genuine interest in you. After that pull her outdoor and do some trailing in public places
Should only do sniff test, no lay, to see if there's genuine connection or not. The more she has to travel, the less you have to - test her interest in you. Start off with a fine handshake or a hug
An hour later, end the date and take her to her car, if have connection pull her in for a hug and a brief kiss. If there is no connection say farewells and leave it at that
How to Assess Your Value
Your financial & wealth
Your self-care, physique, look, style
Your network, status
Overall the 4: Looks, Money, Status & Game
Manage Fucks You Give
Self Control - Doing Temporary Uncomfortable Things
Not Give a Fuck About "Energy Vampires"
Preserve Your Fuck for Your Mission