Encourage parents to focus on their children’s best interests. Educators often hear the overflow of parents’ emotions and thoughts about each other, since school is the connecting point for their children. In meetings with parents, or even in informal encounters, you can help children by discouraging their parents from criticizing, blaming, or denigrating the other parent in front of their children. Children understand that both parents are somehow a part of them, and when a parent is made to look bad, children often feel that they are somehow defective, too.