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- - - - absolutely snapped when she got how when she got under the fire
        
        Under the fire = arguement
        
        It was about kenneth keeping on coming into my room
        
        It was verbally agreed with mum present with Kenneth, that nether I or Kenneth can enter each others room without knocking on the door & cannot walk into the room without permission
        
        Screamed : "THIS IS WHY I WANTED TO FUCKING LEAVE THIS HOUSE"
    - - When opening up to her she will make you feels bad/ feel like the villain
    - - In front of family & friends, the perfect family
        
        But inside the house she is a reck
        
        Tries and control everything herself
        
        Telling everyone about her work/ chores around the house struggle (even to friends)
        
        As if no one else exist
        
        Does all of Yai Yia's doctors trip
        
        When she tries and get her sibling (my uncles and auntie to go instead, it's always like we don't know what to do and you've been to all the appointments
        
        Complains about it and going to them
        
        Bitch no one is forcing you & no one ask
        
        Then she rants saying she does everything, your living in her house, she pays for your holidays.
        
        Bragging about her children's stuff
        
        Trying to take credit for her childrens work, when it was really them who put the effort, been working, done all of that. Did she write my essay, no, did she work all my shifts, no. Did she remind us sure, but other than that she should now the limit or that bar atlease
    - - Main reason why I can't talk to her about personal matter
        
        though she would always want to know and gets angry when I don't tell her/ let her in
      - Extremely deffesive and will shut down any alligations on her with agression
    - - Back to how she tries to handle everything, most things are out of her control,
      - Family matters
        
        Kenneth and Wendy in an argument
        
        Kenneth and I in an argument
        
        Me and Wendy in an argument
      - When she's tired, she won't touch a thing, if wendy doesn't want to cook that day, then we'll order take out
      - Always makes herself busy with other people's thing (she says she's caring and it's the right thing to do, but not when it makes u need a nana nap), like may sounds rude but taking yia yia shopping, going here and there and not taking a break
        
        bruv no one is forcing u to do all these thing, oh u got to get them done, just shut up no one likes a whinny person espesically one that gets affended and takes it too personal
  - - - When I'm siting on my bed on my phone, he will lye on me and annoy me
        
        roll around, like I know if I did it to him, he would hate it and hit me
      - Uber eats
        
        Every time mum or Wendy hasn't planned anything for dinner he would go up to me or Wendy being like "Have you had lunch yet' 'What do you feel like, burgers or noodle box."
        
        When he pays online he always insists to have his money straight way if haven't
        
        Everytime he would see you, he would always mention that you owe him money
        
        "Hey where's MY MONEY"
        
        Always insist that either wendy or I pay online
        
        apparently he doesn't want it to show on his account
      - The amount of times I've told him not to go on my bed, sit in it, lye in it and get into the duvet cover
    - - When he gets angry, you are in danger
        
        He would hit his walls and slam his door
        
        Will punch and kick
        
        I even made a log about when I was left home alone with him
        
        Long story short - didn't feel safe
        
        When I told mum, she did confront him, but changed my words of what he said. Of course he would argue back saying that's not what I said, she always says 'that's what I said' (it wasn't)
        
        She never resolved the issue
    - - When I told mum this she is like 'don't say it like that, you make him sound like an alcoholic'
        
        When he drinks, he's angry drunk
    - - Dumb LITTLE girl
        
        He knows that I'm self-conscious about my height
      - Blind girl
      - Fat pig
      - Idiot
  - - - Can't solve arguments
    - - crumbles under stress
  - - - When in an argument, she would take it as a court case
        
        Bringing irrelevant statements to take down target
        
        Uses big words to make her sound smart
- - - - Told Mum and Dad about this, done fucking nothing
      - Told grade 10 English teacher Ms Pham, she did something
        
        She moved the whole class for me, so I don't get distracted and near Lily
        
        Attack emails here
        
        Put Lily in her place
        
        Pays more attention on Lily and when she isn't paying attention
        
        Lily sees it as Mr Pham picking and attacking her
      - I was in therapy twice cause of this bitch
  - - - She used to be a good kid, nice and would say hi and knows my name
        
        Now she doesn't say hi, ignores me, plays dumb and is a bitch
        
        Even in 2021, when I was in her sport class I would try and talk to her, she would only come stand with me when her friends aren't there
        
        Even then she would try and get to a higher group like the year 10 popular girls being Sienna, both Zoe's and Kitty Rose
    - - Bestfriends in primary school in grade 5 or 4
        
        Ditched me to hang out with Maja Briggs and her friends (popular kids)
        
        She wore contact lenses instead of her glasses, probably to fit in more