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The Willpower Instinct, willpower rule, demonstrate - Coggle Diagram
The Willpower Instinct
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sleep intervention
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mindfulness meditation is the training design help to improve their sleep and sleep more ( their : the person who use drug and want to recovery and quit drug)
do a little bit of meditation every day, breath meditation focus increase sleep time to just over 8 hours a day and control group(non-meditatior) had a little bit of deterioration to slightly less than 7 hours of sleep at night
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the recovering addicts impervious to relapse, they were stronger against relapse
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failure intervention
the harder you are on yourself when you have a willpower failure the more likely you are the same failure again the it's bigger
one study of drinkers and keep them track of how much they were drinking and how bad they feel the morning after
the people who have critical and felt the most ashamed or guilty about drinking the night before wanted to drink more immediately when they wake up and also drink more that night and the next
self critical nature and the shame and the guilty drive people back to the very thing they felt bad about
when we are feeling stress out, and guilty and ashamed, that is the sate that put us into of the version of ourself, mindset that is much more susceptible to immediate gratification, temptation and anxiety
it basically the biological opposite of what need to be happening in your brain and body to remember long term goals and to be that orther version of self
when we pilling on the guilt and the shame, brain switch into other mode that everything is gonna be tempting even procrastinating, drinking or smoking
write the message for self and literally have them the script for the moments they fail, procrastinated, late whip this massage out as a way of not falling down the hole that they often fall into
3 step of message
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common humanity
reason hard to find motivation, willpower is we start feel there's something uniquely broken with us, there's something about people wrong and weak
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visualizing intervention
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a number of studies show that when people are reminded of their success and take note of their progress they are much more likely to then do something inconsistent with their goal
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you can think of yourself as your own little cooperation with goals and if you find your self hitting setbacks, one of the most important things you can do is adjust your expectations
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health intervention
the power of acceptance
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intrusive thoughts: some time our mind goes places we don't want it to go, to memories or to things we're imagining, negative thought about ourselves
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schizophrenia who learn accept to their own intrusive thoughts and hallucinations and delusions like a craving, that's not real, and you don't need to act on it but it's still be there and eventually pass
surfing the urge
notice the thought, craving or feeling
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broaden your attention, and look for the action that will help you achieve your goals
willpower rule
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make friend with your future self, predict failure
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