Please enable JavaScript.

Coggle requires JavaScript to display documents.

In Islam - Husband can have 4 wives but wives can have only 1 husband,…

- - - - The Husband Should wait and control his desire.
      - Husband can do foreplay without sexual intercourse
      - Sexual is not the only thing why husband wife spend time together, they cand do other things like sharing their daily lives, etc (talking), watching movies together etc.
  - - - Husband should wiat have patience and control his desire as he is not the only one who needs to keep patience, his wife is also keeping patience for not having sexual satisfaction. Additionally, she is also bearing other problems like pains, putting restriction on her diet, not able to physical activity, and finally she is going to suffer from the pain of delivery. If we compare both the patience that husband needs to have is very easy than his wife.
      - The problem that his sexual need is not able to satisfy due to his wife getting pregnant is a temperorary prblem. That is only for few months or may be few years (if we add after care of child after birth). But one can not have temprorary marriage. Husband can not marry someone for some time period. So what will happen to second wife when one wife get available? As at that time the reason (problem) will be no more present.
      - Doctor only recommend absence from sex for first 3 months and later couples can perform sexual intercourse with care (in some proper positions)
      - Husband and wife can have foreplay, for sexual satisfaction it is not always require to have full sexual intercourse.
  - - - Why this is only applicable to men? There can be a women whose sexual need might not be satisfied by her man, then why the God has not given a solution of having another man?
      - If any person have unusual high sexual desire then he should tell before marriage, and if the women is ok then she can marry. If she does not agreed then he needs to divorce first women then marry other 2 or more women
  - - - He can support her by making her his sister
      - He can support by financing her wedding with another divorced man
      - He can provide her with job, eg: in his home as Maid
      - If this will be the reaon then Quran should have a condition that one can marry only divorcee if marrying more than one wife. But there is no such conditions.
  - - - Yes Reasons
        
        Social Reasons
        
        Society prefer boys child over girl child so they opt for obortion if found girl child
        
        Reasons
        
        Medical Reasons
        
        Male has XY chromosones & female has XX. So there are more combinations possible with XX as there are 3 Xs (not verified)
        
        Female fetus is more stronger and likely to survice miscarriage then male fetus
        
        Males are more like to die early then females, like 1. in US people dieing due to voilence (homecide) were mostly males, 2. also males dieing because of heart attacks are more then compare to females, 3. During the war males most likely get killed (eg: Russia)
  - - - Hinduism man can have many wives according to their literature, however, the preist later changed that to 1 man 1 women
      - In Chistianity can man have multiple wives
      - In budhism also man can have 4 wives
    - - In skhism 1 man can have 1 wife only
      - There are around 4200 religions, now one can only claim that no religion limit marriages, who have read all the religion text about what they say on marriages
      - where does it come from? Zakir Naik has written a book about Quran and in this he had claim that on face of planet Earth, Quran is the only book who talk about putting limit on the number of wives. As he claim himself as student of comparative relgion, thus, everyone believed him. But I think, skism was not in his portion :stuck_out_tongue: