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Conflicts in daily life - Coggle Diagram
Conflicts in daily life
Friends
Taking too long to respond to a friend's text message/call
Causes the other friend to feel frustrated and betrayed
Resolution
Allow the friends to address and clarify their feelings and perspectives directly to each other, leading to mutual understanding of both points of view
A peaceful compromise will be made
When a friend has not included them in their plans
Leads to feelings of jealousy, distrust, and infedelity
Resolution
To maintain their relationship, the friend should actively listen to their friend's troubles and communicate honestly
Find a agreed solution/plan amongst both parties
Family
Unequal distributions of household responsibilities/chores
They may feel indignant, neglected, or angry
Discuss and communicate this problem openly to both parties
Lead to a fair and rational agreement/solution between the two
Valuing work over family time
Their family may feel worried, agitated, and betrayed, while they might feel annoyed due to their family's overprotection
Allow them to explain their job/work circumstances to their family when both parties are being open-minded and rational
Agree on a mutual solution to balance work and family time
Stranger
Being disrespectful or racist to their culture/ethnicity
They may feel disrespected, insulted, or looked down-upon, leading to anger
Resolution
Stand up for themselves and voice out their opinions against discrimination calmly
They might stop the argument due to the lack of dominance in the conversation
they may feel even more severely angered
give each other space to allow both of them calm down
reach mutual acceptance on their different opinions
Walk away and ignore them whilst maintaining a calm composure
The other party may feel overlooked and doubt their own actions, leading to acceptance of their own wrongdoings
Being accused for discrimination or harassing
They might feel violated and ridiculed due to their accusations, leading to frustration and rage
Resolution
Allow both parties to clarify their misunderstandings and calmly apologise to their accusations
Leads to restored trust and reliance