oedipus complex - Freud claimed that during the phallic stage, little boys develop incestuous feelings towards their mother and a jealousy of the father, fighting for the mothers attention, they repress these feelings and identify with their father, taking on his gender role
electra complex - same as the oedipus complex, but for girls, penis envy, they desire their father and are jealous of the mother, freud was less clear about the electra complex but it's assumed that the girls repress the feelings and identify w the mother by having a baby