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Didn't Summit - Coggle Diagram
Didn't Summit
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Trust and Surrender
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High involvement, low attachement (flows from loving the journey)
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You will have exactly the climb you were supposed to have. So if you didn't summit, it's because it wasn't in the universe's plan for you right now. It wasn't in your spiritual curriculum.
Contrast: if you always summited, it wouldn't be special
Maybe there's a lesson. I think not summiting makes me a better coach with more empathy. Who wants the coach who has always had it easy?
My Story
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Stories we tell ourselves (fat, slow, didn't try hard enough)
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Expectation hangover, but it ultimately changed my life
The Truth
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Illusion of control
A lot of moving parts have to align (some of these we can control, but a lot of them we can't)
I'll share some immediate first aid, and also some things you can do in the planning stages to prevent a massive expectation hangover if you don't make it to the top.
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Why We Care
Patriarchy
Writes a story for us about being strong, masculine, fit, capable, a conquerer
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Loving the Journey
It takes a long time to train for a mountain. Is it worth it to get to the top if that makes you miserable for months?
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Why this episode
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People liked hearing a non-success story, felt like it took the pressure off