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I feel like an imposter, Then People will leave me, especially new people…

- - - - The person leaves, gets angry, dismisses me
        
        This is not my problem and it means their energy needed to leave my space so I can grow. And Shit yeah- get out of my energy sphere!!!!
- - - - I feel this way because
        
        If someone finds me out then I am caught and have to defend myself, my behaviors, my beliefs and my choices
        
        I feel this way because
        
        If I were authentic I would not need to defend or justify myself. Others would just get it.
        
        I feel this way because
        
        I pride myself on pausing and attempting to see the other's perspective
        
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        Hell girl, authenticity has nothing to do with this. I am the real me and the real me is evolving and changing as more contrast and clarity enters my life. This creates a more vibrant and expansive me. It does not matter if others don't get it. They do not have to "get" me. I have no need any more to justify or defend myself. If they don't like it, lump it!
        
        Fuck- yes catch me more often!!! FIND ME OUT! This helps me!!!!! Proves to me who I am!!! Allows me a deeper conversation with my own IB. when they "catch me" then the veil has been lifted and they have learned who I truly am. They can make their own decisions from there. on further interactions with me. I no longer need to defend or explain myself!!! Whoot Whoot!!!
- - - - Others see me as unqualified and attribute certain negative attributes to me.
        
        WTF do I care what others think about me or say about me. Its is not my business. Stop co-signing your own BS. I know the standards I have for myself and I choose assignments that match my skills and comfort level.
  - - - I should move out of the way to allow for more qualified individuals
        
        I feel this way because
        
        Get over yourself Michelle! I am requested by Deaf consumers, requesting entities and recommended by certified interpreters and leaders in the field. I am more than qualified for the work I do and navigate this profession with integrity and professionalism
  - - - I still go through struggles
        
        Fuck Yeah! Contrast and feeling our emotions is vital to expansion and growth. Through my own experiences I am better able to serve myself and those I work with.