The 7 habits of Highly Effective teens

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Habits are things we do repeatedly. But most of the time we’re hardly aware that we even
have them. They’re on autopilot.

Habits

Habit 4: Think Win-Win

Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood

Habit 3: Put First Things First

Habit 6: Synergize

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind

Habit 7: Sharpen the Saw

Habit 1: Be Proactive

If you are a proactive person, you tend to make choices based on values. And, if you are a reactive one you make choices based on impulse. Being proactive is the first step toward achieving the private victory.

Begin with the End in Mind, means developing a clear picture of where you want to go with your life, It means deciding what your values are and setting goals.

In order to manage ourselves effectively, we must put first things first. We must have the discipline to prioritize our day-to-day actions based on what is most important, not what is most urgent.

In order to establish effective interdependent relationships, we must commit to creating Win-Win situations that are mutually beneficial and satisfying to each party.

Before we can offer advice, suggest solutions, or effectively interact with another person in any way, we must seek to deeply understand them and their perspective through empathic listening.

By understanding and valuing the differences in another person's perspective, we have the opportunity to create synergy, which allows us to uncover new possibilities through openness and creativity.

To be effective, we must devote the time to renewing ourselves physically, spiritually, mentally, and socially. Continuous renewal allows us to synergistically increase our ability to practice each habit.

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The Relationship Bank Account represents the amount of confidence and trust that you have in a relationship (with a friend, boss, family, etc). You should make deposits on another RBA's (Keep promises, Do small acts of kindness, Be loyal, etc).

How you feel about yourself is like a bank account.Just like at a regular bank, you can make deposits in and take withdrawals out of your personal bank account by the things you “think, say, and do.”

A paradigm is a perception or a point of view on a certain matter, and often times our paradigms can put limitations on ourselves.

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Habit 4, 5 and 6: this habits deal with relationships with any kind and how we should treat and behave with other persons.

Habit 1, 2 and 3: They deal with our inner being, feelings and desires

Habit 7: It surrounds all of the other habits and makes each one possible by preserving and enhancing yourself.

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