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What goals matter to you?
Boosting Sex Drive
When sex happens, what do you feel?
Anxiety/Fear/Nervousness
How long has this been going on?
More than a year
Did anything happen?
Medical diagnosis/symptom/concern
What type of concern?
Physical health
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Mental health
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Other
Traumatic Event
Sexual abuse
Violent Abuse
Relationship event
Relationship change in status
Situational context change
Less than a year
Feeling a change in your body can catch us off guard. We often feel...
Has anything happened in the last year?
All my life
Numb
Bored
Guilt/Shame
Repairing communication
Sexual Pleasure
Intimacy
What have you ben struggling with recently?
Losing my partner
Feeling broken/inadequate
Body issues
Low self-esteem
More than a year
Less than a year
All my life
What are your goals?
Body Confidence/feeling attractive
My body doesn't work/feels broken. It should work in a certain way but doesn't
My body will never be good enough
Can't have the sex Iwant
I don't feel good about the way I look
Wish I felt sexier
Wish I had a different body
Feear of being naked
Relationship Stability/Health
Lack of communication
Not feeling heard/understood
Feelings on sex not understood by my partner
Fears relationship will never be ok
Fear relationship will end
Feeling excited about sex
Worried I'll never feel excited bout sex again
Worry I'll never be excited about my partner again
I feel numb around sex
Feel disinterested in touch
Being touched makes me feel bad
Self-confidence
Feelings of inadequacy
Not working hard enough at the problem
Not good enough for partner
Too much for me to handle or cope with
Ashamed I'm having a problem
Build Self-confidence
Feel broken - disconnect from my body/I don't know what's wrong with me
How long has this been going on for
Is not caused by the sexual problem. Rooted in work history, family of origin, failed parenting - track down etiology.
This is all my fault
How does your partner respond/how supportive is your partner?
Not good enough for my partner/going to disappoint my partner
Will I ever be interested in sex again?
Body confidence
My body doesn't work
I can't get aroused
It doesn't function like it used to
I feel pain during sex
I don't enjoy sex with my partner anymore
My body's changed
Age
Childbirth
Surgery
Health condition/diagnosis
Fear of being naked
I feel exposed
I don't like the way I look/feel unattractive
When do you notice feeling uncomfortable in your body?
My own reflection
Comments from partner
Comparison to others
On social media
Before sex
Feeling excited about sex
Worry I'll never be interested in sex again
My partner knows I'm not enjoying sex
Hurting my partner by rejecting them makes me feel bad
I miss the enjoyment/pleasure want to feel sexual
Relationship Stability/Health
Fear Relationship will end
More than a year
Had a child
Moved in together
Started new job
Lost job
Change in my health
Mental Health
Depression
Lithium
Depacote
Sertraline
Herbamazephine
Lomeptol
Thorozine
Seraquil
Zooft
Prozac
The amount of therapy does not make a difference. You started medication - you need to seek a medical provider and ask what do I do next. Part of the problem is the physician is that they'll say the same thing. Doctor knows about sexual side effects. There's not a lot of agenct. Introducing flexibility into the relationship. Adapt to a new definition of sex. Unless they go off the medication. You're still left with the side effects. You need to redefine sex and your partner needs to redefine sex.
Anxiety
adavan
xanax
Personality Disorders
Cognitive distortions
Body Image issues
Work/career habits
Connect sex & affection
Physical health
Endometriosis
Pain during sex
Menopause
If what they're experiencing is purely related to hormones. Hormones have impacted your view of self. You may question who you are, feeling disconnected from your body. More often than not, the etiology is age. But it's what we do with that information. If you decide it means something about yourself. -- It gets idiosyncratic. Identifies times in the past they were successful. I will look at the qualities of the partner. Everyone will respond differently to different things
Childbirth
Testosterone
Surgeries
Diabetes
Prescription meds
Habitual drug/alco use
Both
Look after someone/elderly parent
Life events
Less than a year
All my life
How has your partner responded to the problem?
Threatened to leave
Refuses to talk about the problem
Listens and understands my view on the problem
Feel pressure to fix the problem
Does things to make my life feel easier
Fear partner seek sex elsewhere
How does this make you feel?
Insecure
Blaming themselves (Shame)?
Guilty
Isolated/Lonely
Anxious
Lost/Hopeles/Desprart
Angry
Sad
Nothing/Numb
Relief
Inadequate/not good enough
Unattractive/Gross/unwanted/unloved
Strain the relationship/sex is causing a rift between us
When a sexual encounter occurs, what actions do you take?
Take examples from typeform
Short text for support for any of these responses for normalization
How long have you been feeling this way
Don't worry bob loblaw
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How long have you been feeling this way?