^This is the only thing that can lead us to live happily, healthily, and resiliently through all phases of life. People can only truly do this when you take responsibility for yourself, lead by example, and learn from others. That is why I value honesty, authenticity and integrity. We can only grow if each of us has a commitment to these values. We also only know what is good to do when we have searched for truth (the truth that hate is never a positive answer to anything, for example). It requires us to be open about our achievements and failures.