The One Thing
The lies
The truth
- Everything matters equally
- Multitasking
- Will-power
- A discipline life
- A balanced life
5.Big is bad
Wrong. apply the 20/80 rules.
One the 20% should do, apply 20/80 rule again
Only do the ONE thing
It's a lie
the people who we live with and work with deserve out full attention
it's finite, run out quickly
reserve it, only use it when necessary
A balanced life is a mediocrity life: you need to go extreme in either end to achieve extra-ordinary
just not going too far so you get lost
Big idea, big goals, small steps
multiply your goal by 2 then plan it.
Needs 66 days to form habit
Use counter balance
Purpose, meaning and significance are what make a successful life
1. The focusing Question
2. The successful habit
: what's the one thing i can do such that by doing it, everything else will be easier or unnecessary?
Ask the focusing questions in health, work, relationship and finance
3. The path to great answer!
- Ask BIG & SPECIFIC question!
- Finding the great answer.
- Do-able- forget about it
- Stretch: do the research and and study whats been done. Use it as benchmark
- Probable: you want to do this. Set the trend and possibility from the stretch. you want to venture into something that has not done before