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Interpersonal communication (Stage of romantic relationships (Initiating,…
Interpersonal communication
Definitions
interpersonal communication
Two way interactions between people who are a part of a close and irreplaceable relationship in which they treat each other as unique individuals
Altruistic lies
Deception intended to be unmalicious, or even helpful, to the person to whom its told
Social penetration model
A theory that describes intimacy via the breadth and depth of self disclosure
The johari window
A model that describes the relationship between Self disclosure and self awarness
Meta communication
Messages that refer to other messages; communication about communication
Self disclosure
The process of deliberately revealing information about one self that is significant and that would not be normally known by others
Social exchange theory
The idea that we seek out people who can give us rewards that are greater than or equal to the costs we encounter in dealing with them
Reasons for usage of communication technology
1.Mediated channels enable communication that would not happen otherwise
2.Mediated communication can feel non threatening
3.Online communication can feel validating
Electronic communication often have a pause option
Reasons of being with relational partners
1.The person is physically attractive
2.We have a lot in common
3.We balance each other out
4.The person likes and appreciates me
5.I admire the person's abilities
The person opens up to me
7.I see the person frequently
The relationship is rewarding
Relationship reality check
First impressions can be misleading
Our priorities change
Perfection can be a turn off
Its not all about communication, but it's a lot about communication
Types of interpersonal relationships
Friendship
Family relationships
Parents and children
Siblings
Grandparents and grandchildren
Romantic partners
Types of friendships
Youthful versus Mature
Short term versus Long Term
Low disclosure versus high disclosure
Doing oriented versus being oriented
Low obligation versus high obligation
Frequent contact versus occasional contact
Same sex versus other sex
In person versus mediated
Type of love languages
Affirming words
Quality time
Acts of service
Gifts
Physical touch
Stage of romantic relationships
Initiating
2.Experimenting
3.Intensifying
4.Integrating
5.Bonding
6.Differentiating
7.Circumscribing
Stagnating
9.Avoiding
10.Terminating
Communication patterns in relationships
Content and relational messages
Affinity
Respect
Immediacy
Control
Meta communication
Self disclosure in interpersonal relationships
Models of social disclosure
Johari window
Social penetration model
Strategies for managing dialectical tensions
Denial
Disorientation
Selection
Alternation
Polarization
Segmentation
Moderation
Re framing
Reaffirmation
Characteristics of effective social disclosure
1.Is the other person important to you
2.Is the disclosure appropriate
3.Is the risk of disclosing reasonable
Is the disclosure relevant to the situation at hand
5.Is the disclosure reciprocated
6.Will the effect be constructive
Is the self disclosure clear and understandable
Dialect perspective of interpersonal relationships
Connection versus anatomy
Openness versus privacy
Predictability versus Novelty
Types of lies
Altruistic lies
Evasions
Self serving lies
Examples
Text
The usage of mediated channels to send messages that would not happen otherwise like the text of how a guys girlfriend broke up with him several times with him through email
Personal
Using the social exchange theory when meeting new people to see whether being with them or being associated with them is helpful or beneficial