Boy friend being angry

Feel that it is challenging being with an angry GF

Work is already giving me so much trouble and I want peace

I feel like my time is not respected when you are busying appease someone instead of communicating

GF just say that I am defensive and I was not give a chance to explain

went on being crazy about finding evidence, which is taxing and feels like I am justifying to my Director.

GF say that she believe but she just keep on finding information and asking why. If you really believe someone, you will not ask questions after question after question.

Why GF is insecure?

I lie to her before and the trust is broken

Feels that I am making up story

I cant remember, my mum and my cousin just told me to bring my GF along for the family dinner so I summaries it as my god parents wants to see you

I agree this does not make sense as they have already see her before, but why do I have to make everything logical? Do you need me to be like factual every time like when I am working?

I know after I say this you will be like I hate you when you does that, you are like not trying

Love is about accommodating not changing. Yes you can argue that I should accommodate to you controlling behaviour. I can but I will end up treating you like work and not enjoying it loh.

I do respect your time, as much as possible I will be on time and if I am like I will inform you in advance

I think sometime you are piss when I am late, you just dont say it and then blow out at me during Friday.

Solution

I will try to give you all the fact next time and will only send you messages after I review it during my free time, so that the messages send will be logical and back with concrete evidence. I will also follow the 5C

Complete

Correct

Concise

courteous

Clear

I agree the sudden changes make you question why is it like that. But my dad is always like that, making last min decision. Should I be angry at him too?

I should use that and skip all the meeting with my relative that I think is a waste of time

Yes I dont like people, i dont like to text. But I dont mind talking to myself, because I dont feel that I understand myself enough to speak for myself.

Why do I wanted to meet you

I think we have problem with this relationship

I know that you feel that time is waste for me watching youtube and I feel it too. shall we grow together and do something more productive like learning new things together

I always proposed my place because I have a room to myself with all the things need to learn. for instance 2 computer. A bed with space to rest on.

Dont tell me that you are ok with watching youtube, i know our taste of youtube is so different

I am ok to have like a TAG before every meet up. TAG means a Time, Amount (things to do) Goal before we meet up. And if I have like changes that you disagree then we cancel the trip to prevent us from getting into situation like this

How could i manage your insecurity?

stop talking and smiling and heard you out

can you at least allow me to smile, if not I scard that I will maintain black face at you. Like I say smile does not means that I am not listening. If you really want me to listen to you in detail, can I take note while you talk? just need some activity to do when facing angry GF.

if I got nothing to do my mind will just be angry too and make me say thing to make you angry so that the both of us are in the same state, angry