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FOURTH DAY COACHING (WELCOME & SETTING THE RULES (HOMEWORK (CHANGES…
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NEGATIVE RISKS
YOU MAY TEND TO FORGET THE HOMEWORK, WHENEVER YOU REMEMBER DO IT
IF YOU THINK SOME CONCERN THAT YOU HAVE NOT MENTIONED IN THE COACHING, CALL UP FOR 2 MIN AND TALK TO THE COACH AND WE CAN ADDRESS IT IN NEXT SESSION. ITS BETTER TO SOLVE THAN IGNORE
IF YOU FIND ANYTHING NOT RIGHT, INSTEAD OF JUDGING THE COACH OR PARTNER, OR PROCESS, TAKE A 2 MIN TELECALL WITH COACH
DON'T WAIT
IF YOU HAVE MADE THE MISTAKE, OWN IT AND SAY SORRY, STOP THE DISCUSSION
IF THE OTHER IS SAYING SORRY, DROP YOUR GUNS
DON'T JUDGE THE PARNER IF DISCUSSION DOESN'T GO SMOOTH,
STOP THE DISCUSSION BY REPAIRING ATTEMPT,
IF YOU SEE THAT YOU HAVE BROKEN RULES - REMEMBER PARTNER IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE TOPIC
DON'T EVER USE COACH'S REFERENCE TO PROVE SOMETHING/TO CORRECT SOMETHING. DO THE CORRECT BEHAVIOR INSTEAD OF REFERRING THE COACH
IF YOU DON'T DO HOMEWORK, RELATIONSHIP EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT WILL BE EMPTY, SO YOU CAN'T DO CONNECTION TALK - IT TAKES ENERGY AND IS STRENOUS IF YOU HAVE NOT FILLED LOVE
IF YOUR PARTNER WANTS TO TALK TO THE COACH - ITS HEALTHY AND FOR YOUR GOOD, DON'T ATTACH IT TO YOUR SELF ESTEEM. ITS FORTUNATE TO ASK FOR HELP. OBVIOUSLY YOUR PARTNER IS ASKING FOR HELP BECAUSE HE/ SHE LOVES YOU AND WANTS TO DO GOOD.
ITS JUST LIKE OPENING GOOGLE MAPS, YOU DON'T JUDGE YOUR SELF WORTH WHEN YOU GO ONO GOOGLE MAP.
RATHER IT'S GOOD FOR THE TEAM. Don't fear that your partner is saying bad about you. Feel assured. Feel grateful that you have all created so much success by addressing the gaps. Say to your partner that you love him/her and its about the gaps that you want to remove because you love
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