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Marriage Bliss or Breakdown - what you need to know to confidently make a…
Marriage Bliss or Breakdown - what you need to know to confidently make a decision for moving forward
On the fence about whether they should stay in the relationship or go. Star Result #2: From Questioning to Commitment
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Why is this hard?
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can't sit with the pain long enough to make a decision so do little things to take the edge off but don't get the results they want
Star Result #3: what are my core needs in my relationship? what are my rights and responsibilities? guiding principles what you will do and won't do
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Star result #1:mindset shift: get to the real question (am i willing to see our relationship challenges as an opportunity for growth rather than this is a problem?) to ask so you can get to an answer that feels empowering and in your control
why is this hard?
when they ask should I stay or should I go? they don't have a solution that feels good and limit their growth
when they instead ask: am I going to use these challenges or not? they have to face they are in control of creating their life and relationship
it is easy to stay in fear, blame and to focus on others then on ourselves and what we have the power to change - hard to take a look at yourself and feel your emotions
requires us to step into our best selves to create better relationships - have to decide what this looks like
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When does this happen?
when they realize they are not able to answer the question should i stay or should i go? but are unhappy about their current situation
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