Please enable JavaScript.
Coggle requires JavaScript to display documents.
MY LEARNING IN UNDERSTANDING THE SELF (THE PHYSICAL SELF (t is upon on us…
MY LEARNING IN UNDERSTANDING THE SELF
IDEAL SELF and REAL SELF
Ideal self is the who that you want to be. We often idolized famous or influencial people.Our ideal self tells us to be like them so we copy how they look and even how express their actions.
Real self is the who we are in the present.What you see when you look in the mirror is your real self.The way we behave and response to our surroundings is our real self.
THE PHYSICAL SELF
t is upon on us on how we percieve our body visually. Our physical appearance has a big factor in building our self esteem as well as our body image. Society has it's own standards of beauty especially for women so we often visualized that most women nowadays are obsessed in buying make ups for pleasure.
Each of us has its own definition of beauty.Nowadays being beautiful is treated as personal refenrence.No one like you if you are not attractive at all although there are some who do not care the way you look.Being beautiful of course is an advantage however it cannot be defined only on what we see but also how an individual behave in the society.
David Hume believes that beauty depends on how other people view you as a person. The perception of people about beauty differ and everyone has its own standards of beauty
Francis Hutcheson believes that beauty cannot be seen only with our naked eyes but also through one's attitude towards other people
SEXUAL ORIENTATION and GENDER ISSUES
There are many factors that affects one's gender identity such as sociocultural,family and the environment where he/she belong we all have different cutures so conflicts in understanding other culrures also influences one's gender identity just like in other country where LGBT are free to show off themselves while other countrys are probihited.
FAMILY PLANNING
Family planning has advantages and at the same time disadvantages .Having family planning can help the family to control their desired members of the family however it can also tha cause of conflicts especially when there is an improper use of contraceptics.
There are several methods of family planning where in it can help to lessen HIV/AIDS rate, empower and enhance education and slows down population growth according to World's Health Organization.
Using contraceptions doesn't mean you are 100% sure you are not going to get pregnant. There are still posibilities of unexpected pregnancy. So natural family planning method are still the best for couples.
ME and My Digital Self
As a millenial, I am one of those who are engaged in social media. Through social media you can able to express and update your status by just a few click.
Our digital self can able to help us build our desired identities. We can able to express our feelings freely compared to what we are in person.
Social media also helps us to gain more friends and socialized even through online and attain social rewards through reactions and comments in which you feel worth it and helpful that makes social media so addicting.
PRIVATE vs.PUBLIC SELF
Private self is how we behave through social media in which do not match to personality in real life. They express their true self in social media in which people are unaware that they have that kind of personality because he/ she may afraid to show their true feelings in person.
Public self is how we behave are what other people observed on us as a person.You don't hold grudge to show off the real you in public. Your behaviors and attitude are observed by public