What Do You Do When You Love a Girl More Than She Loves You? (When…
What Do You Do When You Love a Girl More Than She Loves You?
When somebody is asking to be with you super early in the relationship before you deeply bonded together,then it's a totally selfish thing.It is not love.This is a gesture of them trying to get more love for themselves.It is not your responsibility.Love yourself save yourself and get out of that relationship.Or be ultra clear that the relationship is not ready to have that talk yet.
Attachment is necessary in a relationship.It is healthy.Attachment is collaboration and teamwork.Depending on each other for the lifestyle to survive.
I have no doubt that overtime,just by doing nothing.Just by simply giving her the freedom that a connection or a bonding will happen.
All hearts wants to be on the same level.All hearts wants equality.
What Do You Do When You Love a Girl More Than She Loves You? pt.2
People of different generations have different ways of relating.That is why it is a huge practice to be relatable and not awkward around different generations .
In any unequal relationship,the prescription is the same.
Solid,nonreactive,open, honoring her outside the gates of her own solitude.And not insisting that she comes within the gates of yours.Ultimately sticking around because you do have a common ground.
All hearts want to be on the same level,all hearts wants to be on the equality.
Mystical Jewish Sages:There are three things you need to have in a partner
She has her own thing and she pursues it.
She is fully able to put her aside and em-pathetically consider those around them.
3) She is intelligent
She is smart.Emotional intelligence.
There are three levels of love dependence
High School Love: I am empty,I don't have enough.I need somebody to fill me.When a relationship starts it is a completely dependent relationship.
David Deida: I need to define my boundaries in order to fully that I am onto myself
Third Stage: We open up.Having known our boundaries and having experienced our boundaries we can break the boundaries and we can experience open love that is not at the mercy of whether or not somebody loves us because we know our wholeness ,we know our centre and we are established in it.
What Do You Do When You Love a Girl More Than She Loves You? pt.3 |
I feel humility for my state,I feel surrender and this bring me to a feeling of self love.And this self love what it does is holds me steady.
The moment I feel that, she sees me as being as totally content,totally confident,totally free and what this does is bring her back to me.
So it actually has the effect of create the love and attraction in her.
Just by sitting in the spirit of love, that is my body,that is my spirit,that is home,that is my consciousness I can immediately see her own search for love.
I look at her levels and align with her 3 qualities of being.which instantly destroys the feeling that she is a stranger. 1)Awareness 2) Emotional 3) Physical
What Do You Do When You Love a Girl More Than She Loves You? pt.4
The moment I feel I love her more than she loves me I descend and I settle down and arouse pure love; that is my body,that is my consciousness. You know you are love because there is simply no other ways to no love if you weren't love.Not even as a metaphor