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- - - - How to create boundaries with kids activities
      - Parent guilt may be the real reason behind overcommittment
    - - Stop worrying if you're doing it right
      - Confidently make decisions
    - - do you feel not good enough to leave?
      - Money reasons
      - Feel like you can't do better
      - How will leaving impact personal relationships? Kids?
    - - Is it me or is this group weird/culty?
      - Is it me or does this feel like a cult?
      - do I go on a second date?
      - hiring
        
        how to choose the right person for the job
        
        3 things to do before hiring
      - Boundaries
        
        Why am I so tired all the time?
        
        How come I can't seem to get what I want to, done?
        
        Accomplishing goals to achieve the mission
        
        Why does it seem there just aren't enough hours in the day?
        
        I want to make a lot of money.
        
        Is your mission driving your goals?
        
        People are so mean to me!
        
        This Habit Changed Everything
  - - - mother/daughter relationships
      - spouse/partnership
      - boundaries
      - in-laws
  - - - Being told how to feel is more common that you think
      - You are what you see.
      - What your group of friends say about you.
    - - Fear of failure
      - Fear of seeing the truth
      - fear of change--change is dangerous
    - - Learned early to put the needs of the family before yourself
      - Dangerous to put your needs first, or ask for those needs being met
      - "Family First"
      - How groups, including families, have hidden agendas
        
        To save the old, false belief that they are only safe if everyone conforms
        
        Saving the old, egoic notion perscribed by fearful and unconscious adults
        
        Does your family have an unknown hidden agenda?
    - - Your supertool for always knowing what to do (your body)
    - - Your head is your safe room
      - Why our thoughts keep us safe
      - The safest place you can go
    - - What does it mean to "trust yourself"?
      - Constant apologizing
      - The real reason we say YES when we really mean NO
    - - I can't change my life.
      - I won't ever be able to change.
      - Change isn't possible for me.
- - - - partner
      - children
      - parents
      - boss