We all face personal problems at some point in our lives, be they small or a big life changing one, such as the uncertainty associated with choosing a university, or something simpler such as asking advice on what to get a friend or significant other for their birthday. Social support more often than not comes from close friends or family members, but with the onset of the internet, one can find groups who specialize in certain personal issues offering support, such as for mental disabilities or addiction. Whatever the topic may be, there are various types of supportive responses one can choose from depending on the situation. Generally when one is sharing a problem or concern, the "instinctual" reaction may be to give advice, although it is not very effective. It can be difficult to discern whether or not someone even wants to hear your opinion and even when someone inquires about advice, it can be considered unhelpful. Passing judgment in reaction to one's behavior can be favorable or unfavorable. Offering praise or constructive criticism is best used when one has directly asked for an evaluation, or is genuinely not meant to put down the person. Analyzing where one offers an interpretation to one's message, somewhat similar to a perception check can be an effective method of helping someone be aware of different meanings that they would most likely have not brainstormed themselves. Despite this, there is a fine line where one interpretation is wrong resulting in confusion or may lead to defensiveness. Asking thought provoking questions can help one understand their problems more clearly and examine any given situation in more detail. During times of distress, all one may need is a comforting voice that can take many forms such as reassurance, agreement, an offer of help, praise, acknowledgment, and diversion. Although sometimes this can make the issue seem trivial if one says "Oh, it will be okay!"