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Communication Climate (six patterns of behavior that evoke defensivness…
Communication Climate
six patterns of behavior that evoke defensivness
Evaluation
instead descride
Control
problem oriented instead
Strategy
spontaneous instead
Neutrality
empathy instead
Superiority
equality instead
Certainty
flexibility instead
Confirming and Disconfirming Climates
confirming climates
messages that demonstrate our value and worth from those with whom we have a relationship
disconfirming
messages that suggest we are devalued and unimportant
defined by causing defensiveness and often leads to a downward spiral
relationships often fall in between
reconizing defensive behavior can help you use suportive behaviors and increase the odds of creating a more positive climate
Patterns of Communication That Contribute to Stability and Well-Being
ptterns are from both in the relationship not just one of the people
when looking at patterns of arguing a ratio of negative of 4 to 1 means the relationship is in deep trouble
peoples positive relationships last longer when they look for the positive qualitys in each other