Kallie's Parented experience (My FOO (Younger step-sister Jordyn…
Kallie's Parented experience
Authoritarian parenting style
Any time anything overwhelms her.
Angry and yelling
Aggressive and uncontrollable at times
Physical hitting or slapping
Name calling and demeaning language
Loss of all personal things
Stress from working or staying at home
Authoritative parenting style
When she is in a good mood
When you come to her with a problem that she thinks she can help with or is in control of.
If you tiptoe around her
My mom's experience growing up
No help with adult tasks
Moved out and got married right out of high school
Grew up in foster care for part of her life
Helped her after she had me
Sexually abused by sister's first husband
Blames everyone else for her problems
Cries to make others feel bad about what they "did"
Favoritism towards specific kids
Step dad- Dave
Same as mom.
Anger and yelling
Gets up in your face
Grade of less than B = No electronics, and no social or personal activities
More common of the two
Only cared when mom felt the situation was out of hand
Favorites my younger sister
Her lies have caused my punishment
Throwing me to the ground
Biological dad- Brad
Make your own food or you go hungry
Find your own things to do
"Don't bother dad"
Physically abusive to other children in the home
Caused childhood trauma
I watched him carry my 5 year old step brother up the stairs by the neck, throw him on his bed and threaten to cut his fingers off because he asked my dad to play while he was working on his vehicles. I was age 8.
A case was opened up and nothing found out because it was covered up.
I watched him beat my 14 year old step brother for buying a bag of jelly beans with his own money and hiding it.
Cops were called multiple times for domestic disturbances
Fought for partial custody to sabotage my mother
Never paid any attention to me
No longer involved after case being opened per brad's choice
Don't hate conflict because iI have lived with it my whole life
I work best on my own or in small groups
Anger issues because of FOO
Tried to work on these
Early engagement to seek new opportunities
Feel like i need parent approval for everything
Feel like I fall short
Often feel like I am not a real adult
Active social life.
Type 6 personality
Culture and history
Large extended family
Money not important
Younger step-sister Jordyn
Easily made emotional
Distant because she is a teenager
Involved in lots of activities
Younger step-brother Tanner
Heavily involved in baseball
Younger step-sister Cierra
Involved in many activities
Used to be a stay at home mom
Never got to finish college
involved in other three children's lives
Christianity isn't a part of our family life outside of church.
No family vacations when I was younger, but they happen now without me.
Little money when I was younger