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Webinar (Top 10 Necessary Needs (2) LOVE CONNCETION, 1) ATTRACTION …

- - - - Habits
      - Patterns
      - Beliefs
        
        The Power of your
        Befiefs to shape
        your future
        
        Making the Invisible
        Visible - Gravity
        
        Support - Destroy
        Relationships
    - - 3 Things People
        Try to Change
        
        1) Change Their Partner
        
        3) Change How They
        Relate to Thier Partner
        
        2) Change Partners
    - - Making Daily Deposits
  - - - 5 Options
        
        2. Hope And Pray That
        The Issue Goes Away
        
        3. Get Your Partner To Change
        (In Other Words, Fix Them)
        
        4. Get A New Partner (Replace
        Them With A Newer-Better Model)
        
        5. Get Some New Relationship Tools, Techniques
        And Skills You Can Use With Your Partner
        
        1. Settle And Suffer Silently
        (Or Complain Loudly) Ignore and Pretend
        
        Pay-Off - Impact/Cost -
        Long Term Effect
      - 3 Actions
        
        1) Delay
        
        2) Delegate
        
        3) Do something
      - 3 PLANS OF
        ACTION
        
        2) DO IT WITH
        A LITTLE HELP
        FROM YOUR FRIENDS
        
        3 Reasons Why most
        Therapy Fails
        
        1) Don't Agree
        
        WIIFM - WEIT
        
        Accountability
        Do More for others
        
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        I WANT IT TO CHANGE
        
        IT IS CHANGEABLE
        
        I AM WILLING TO DO WHAT
        IT TAKES TO CHANGE IT
      - 7 Persistent Patterns
        That Cause 90% of Problems
        
        1 NEEDS
        
        My Partner Doesn’t Know How
        
        Want To Meet My NEEDS
        
        I Don’t Know How - Want
        
        To Meet My Partner’s NEEDS
        
        2 TRUST
        
         Lost Trust Broken Agreements Affairs Intentions * Boundaries
        
        4 TYPES
        
        I Trust your words, agreements, & intentions
        
        I Trust that you will respect my
        boundaries, needs, & vulnerabilities
        
        I Trust that I will respect my boundaries,
        needs, & vulnerabilities when I’m with you
        
        I Trust US - that I can count on you… and you
        can count on me in the tough times
        
        Problem -
        
        Solution
        
        The Problem
        
        It's Impact
        
        Self Esteem
        
        Sex Life
        
        Family
        
        Productivity
        
        The Problem
        
        How Long Has It
        Been a Problem
        
        What Have You tried
        
        How come it wasn't fixed
        
        The Likely Future
        
        90 days
        
        a Year or Two from Now
        
        Cost of not Solving it?
        
        Desired Outcome
        
        The Solution
        
        Why Not Solved
        
        Don't Agee On Problem
        you won't agree on the solution
        
        Chasing Symptom Vs
        Changing Systems
        
        Wrong tool - business card
        vs matchbook
        
        Wrong theory
        headed east looking for sunset
        
        Working on the Wrong
        Problem
        
        3 COMMUNICATION
        
        Above The Line/
        Below the line - Blame, guilt game
        
        Lean In /
        Lean out
        
        Resistance, Resentment & Regret
        
        Connection, Compassion & Cooperation
        
        4 CONFLICTS
        
        Drive us apart
        
        Stuck in a downward spiral
        
        Talking about it - makes it worse
        
        Deepens Our Relationship
        
        Meet each other with
        Compassion, Courage & Curiosity
        
        PROBLEM
        
        We don't know How to talk about important &
        emotional issues w/o taking it personally or
        making it personal
        
        Solution
        
        Acorn Oak
        
        Translation Process
        
        Beleifs
        
        State of courageous,
        compassionate curiosity
        
        5 INTIMACY
        
        3 Types of intimacy
        
        Issues aren't dealt with/
        Intimacy is the first to go
        
        Lack of a love life
        erodes the relationship & Self Esteem
        
        PROBLEM
        
        Intimacy Does't Start
        In the Bedroom
        
        Withhold Love and affection
        to change behavior
        
        Don't enter each other's world
        
        Beliefs
        
        6 WOUNDS -
        
        TRIGGERS
        
        Bitter or Better
        
        Broken Hand
        
        Cast Help
        
        Cast Hurt
        
        Taming Triggers
        
        Responding
        
        Reacting
        
        7 Dealing With Ds
        DIFFFERNCES
        
        TITLE
        
        The 7 Persistent Problems
        That can Wreck Even The Best Relationship
        
        From Feeling Ignored to Being Adored
        
        Are You Making These 7
        Relationship Mistakes
        
        Do You Feel Stuck In Your
        Relationship and Don't Know Why?
        
        Unvail the Problem and Find the Solution
        
        7 Relationship Problems that Need to
        Be Solved to take your relationship from
        Ordinary to Extraordinary
        
        7 Core Problems That Destory
        Most Relationships
        
        Find Out Which Of These
        7 Core Problems Eroding Your Relationship
        Love, Intimacy, Trust & Communication
        
        7 Relationship Problems that Block
        Intimacy, Trust, Love and Communication
        
        Do You Still Love Each Other
        But Hate the Way You Handle Conflicts & Misunderstandings
        
        Bring The Shadow
        Into The Light
        
        Why Your Lover Doesn't
        Listen AnyMore - And What To Do
        about it - so you feel Heard, Understood & Valued
        
        3 Key words
        
        identify
        
        Pain Point
        
        Transform - Decide - Align
        Correct - Elimante
        
        Partner
        
        Thrive - Excel - Flourish
        
        Safe - Connect - Grow
        
        Identify - Align - Eliminate
        The 7 Problematic Patterns
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  - - - Needs not getting met
      - Effects
        
        Love each other
        but hate what's going on
        
        Lost that loving feeling
      - Shame, Embarrassment
        & Confusion
      - Don't know how to talk
        about each other's needs
      - Don't Know What
        The Top 10 Needs Are