Nature of Love :
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So I am guessing there must be some reason for you to choose this, what is it ?
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"Love 💖...We know the word has different meaning to people and it requires intimacy,passion, and commitment but......."
Have you ever heard about the term "fusion of love"?
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Let us get into it without wasting any time.
I shall explain you.
The fusion of love is when two strangers come together and often by accident,they fall in love. It is one of the exciting experiences of life. We are happy and at peace are the moments when we discover an impersonal union with others in love. #love
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Have you ever experienced the fusion of love ?
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Let us get into it without wasting any time.
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I would like to know your understanding of it, what is fusion of love according to you?
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The fusion of love is when two strangers come together and often by accident,they fall in love. It is one of the exciting experiences of life. We are happy and at peace are the moments when we discover an impersonal union with others in love.#love
Have you ever experienced the fusion of love ?
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It is one of the exciting experiences of life.
It is fine, you might experience it later.
"In fusion of love, one feels uplifted, enthralled, and divinized.
This fusion is of two types the higher love and lover love."
The 'Lower love' is affection.
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The 'higher love' is devotion.
Let us carefully analyse the lower type of love.
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It is one of the exciting experiences of life.
It must be good!
Tell me how do you feel about it.
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Ah..That sounds interesting
I am happy to know about you. Thanks for sharing
"In fusion of love, one feels uplifted, enthralled, and divinized.
This fusion is of two types the higher love and lover love."
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The 'higher love' is devotion.
The 'Lower love' is affection.
Let us carefully analyse the lower type of love.
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Alright great.
You can come back and learn any time 🙂
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Alright great.
Lower love is always for mutual benefit.
There is in it a desire for satisfaction. There is togetherness in lower love, but for it to continue, each will have to enrich the life of each other.
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The typical example I can tell you is about a mother and the child in her womb.
Just think, Here mother's life is in, no doubt, enriched by the child within, and the foetus entirely depends upon the mother, for its healthy existence. They are separate, but they live together. The child cannot live or grow without the mother and the mother is not a mother without the child. Each completes one another. Do you agree with this? #anger
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okay.
What stops you from agreeing with it ?
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Oh, well I understand the concept of love is at times subjective.
I cannot live without my family? Well what is that one thing you cannot live without?
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Well I was guessing that...
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Are you totally dependent on it for your existence?
As in, you cannot live without.
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YES
Alright great.
Perfect. Let me tell you something!
I cannot live without my family? Well what is that one thing you cannot live without?
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Well I was guessing that...
Are you totally dependent on it for your existence?
As in, you cannot live without.
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okay.
That's good.
I want to share a real life example with you.
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Okay.
Let me begin.
A boy and a girl were in love. When ever there was a fight or misunderstanding the
boy always took an extra effort to solve it and make the relationship work right.He
also at times lost arguments intentionally to end the fight,took a day off from work to stay with her, travelling long distance to meet up. She really felt so special and
wanted to stay with him but never once took an effort to maintain the love or
reciprocated.
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The guy at one point felt that there was no mutual love and eventually ended up the realtionship.
After years she fell in true love.At this point she realized the fact that the earlier relationship she has was not to feel lonely and to diminish the fear of living independently and she realised how the love was always expected but not given from her end.
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Hmm..
"There are times where we may be fearful about the thoughts of loneliness, not
receiving love and for that reason might have chosen a person to stay with."
Have you ever done that or you know someone who did?
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YES
okay.
Well.. Too much of anything is good for nothing.
I want to share a real life example with you.
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Okay.
Let me begin.
A boy and a girl were in love. When ever there was a fight or misunderstanding the
boy always took an extra effort to solve it and make the relationship work right.He
also at times lost arguments intentionally to end the fight,took a day off from work to stay with her, travelling long distance to meet up. She really felt so special and
wanted to stay with him but never once took an effort to maintain the love or
reciprocated.
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.......
The guy at one point felt that there was no mutual love and eventually ended up the realtionship.
After years she fell in true love.At this point she realized the fact that the earlier relationship she has was not to feel lonely and to diminish the fear of living independently and she realised how the love was always expected but not given from her end.
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Hmm..
"There are times where we may be fearful about the thoughts of loneliness, not
receiving love and for that reason might have chosen a person to stay with."
Have you ever done that or you know someone who did?
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NO
okay
That's really awesome.
Do you believe in God?
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YES
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Alright great.
Would you like to share with me.!!
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Alright great.
okay.
So what happened?
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Thanks for sharing, you made me feel closer.💖
It stays between us.
Do you believe in God?
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Do you believe in God?
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No
Okay
Good to know about you.
Till now we have seen that, lower love has the (4) characteristics
- Transactional (mutual benefit, mutually dependent)
- Conditional (searching for desire satisfaction, in an attempt to complete ourselves)
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3. Demand love.
- Lack of responsibility a bit.
"In Lower love relationship can be of two types. They are active and passive type.Would you like to know more about it?"
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Awesome.
Let us discuss🙂
In passive type of Lower love, the individual clings on to the other person, sacrifices themselves they become submissive acting according to the other
person's demands and rules.
"The active love of Lower love is characterised by domination, the passive type
surrenders to them. In which category do you fall ?"
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Having a self concept is important. Good to know about you.
Now let us talk about the higher love which I mentioned earlier.
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In higher love, we expect nothing at all. We ask nothing from others. What we receive we appreciate it.
This higher love can only be active and involves only giving love to other.
Have there ever been situations where you have given love and never expected it back?
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Yes
okay.
Good to know about you.
"People have tendencies to pray God for different reasons but, mainly to fulfill all their dreams and wishes, seek help and trust lord more when they are in trouble.Are you one among them?"
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okay.
That is something common. I am sad to tell you this, but I think your love towards god is Lower love not the higher love, because their is a dependence and dominance,expectations are wanted to be fulfilled.I will tell you what is higher love is in our upcoming conversations.
Till now we have seen that, lower love has the (4) characteristics
- Transactional (mutual benefit, mutually dependent)
- Conditional (searching for desire satisfaction, in an attempt to complete ourselves)
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3. Demand love.
- Lack of responsibility a bit.
"In Lower love relationship can be of two types. They are active and passive type.Would you like to know more about it?"
Button - Go Ahead
Awesome.
Let us discuss🙂
In passive type of Lower love, the individual clings on to the other person, sacrifices themselves they become submissive acting according to the other
person's demands and rules.
"The active love of Lower love is characterised by domination, the passive type
surrenders to them. In which category do you fall ?"
Button 1- Active
okay
Button 2 - Passive
Okay
Button 3 - None
Okay
Having a self concept is important. Good to know about you.
Now let us talk about the higher love which I mentioned earlier.
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In higher love, we expect nothing at all. We ask nothing from others. What we receive we appreciate it.
This higher love can only be active and involves only giving love to other.
Have there ever been situations where you have given love and never expected it back?
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That is something common. I am sad to tell you this, but I think your love towards god is Lower love not the higher love, because their is a dependence and dominance,expectations are wanted to be fulfilled.I will tell you what is higher love is in our upcoming conversations.
Till now we have seen that, lower love has the (4) characteristics
- Transactional (mutual benefit, mutually dependent)
- Conditional (searching for desire satisfaction, in an attempt to complete ourselves)
Button - And
3. Demand love.
- Lack of responsibility a bit.
"In Lower love relationship can be of two types. They are active and passive type.Would you like to know more about it?"
Button - Go Ahead
Awesome.
Let us discuss🙂
In passive type of Lower love, the individual clings on to the other person, sacrifices themselves they become submissive acting according to the other
person's demands and rules.
"The active love of Lower love is characterised by domination, the passive type
surrenders to them. In which category do you fall ?"
Button 1- Active
okay
Button 2 - Passive
Okay
Button 3 - None
Okay
Having a self concept is important. Good to know about you.
Now let us talk about the higher love which I mentioned earlier.
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In higher love, we expect nothing at all. We ask nothing from others. What we receive we appreciate it.
This higher love can only be active and involves only giving love to other.
Have there ever been situations where you have given love and never expected it back?
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NO
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Oh okay
It is a whole new experience, just give it a try.
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Great.
I got a question for you!!!
We might all have atleast once come across situation where we might end up thinking, giving love is depriving and not receiving back is a shame. It might lead us to disappoinments where our ego builts in and destroys the relationship.
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Good
What was the scenario be like and how did it make you feel??
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I am glad that you have tried it.
It can be hard at times. But I assure you that It will give you a whole new experience.
We might all have atleast once come across situation where we might end up thinking, giving love is depriving and not receiving back is a shame. It might lead us to disappoinments where our ego builts in and destroys the relationship.
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Disagree
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What makes you disagree with what i said ?
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Well at times subjectivity of concepts plays an important role
I understand what you say.
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I said higher love can be active in our earlier talk remember?
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"Well, Active means- It is conscious, willful, actively and energetically loving others, rather than accidentally falling into love."
Aggressively consistent passion to give, rather than mere persistent hope to get.
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I hope now you might understand the concept of 'higher love' better.
Have you ever felt extremely unhappy ?
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Agree
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We as intelligent, compassionate humans, have a vast capacity and faculty to love–
highest kind of love.But we have to cultivate, nurture and enrich it which can be hard.
Try taking up as an challenge for yourself.
I said higher love can be active in our earlier talk remember?
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"Well, Active means- It is conscious, willful, actively and energetically loving others, rather than accidentally falling into love."
Aggressively consistent passion to give, rather than mere persistent hope to get.
I hope now you might understand the concept of 'higher love' better.
Have you ever felt extremely unhappy ?
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NO
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Not even once , that is surprising.
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"In a relationship, one spouse may act and behave according to the way the partner prefers to get what they want. A person can act sick to receive attention and love. "
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This is just an example, many incidents like this happens in our own life where we seek
love more than giving or spreading it to other. Some of us even love only if we are also
loved in return, having an commercial attitude.
"Love is a fulfillment in itself. Very few realizes this, but none dares to live it in life. Do you understand what I am trying to say?"
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I am sorry to hear that🥺
What made you feel that way
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Do not worry about it.
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Things will fall in place.
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"In a relationship, one spouse may act and behave according to the way the partner prefers to get what they want. A person can act sick to receive attention and love. "
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This is just an example, many incidents like this happens in our own life where we seek
love more than giving or spreading it to other. Some of us even love only if we are also
loved in return, having an commercial attitude.
"Love is a fulfillment in itself. Very few realizes this, but none dares to live it in life. Do you understand what I am trying to say?"
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No
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"Well All I am trying to say over here is giving means loving without : expecting results ( I have done it so i must get it back ), conditions, rewards, profits from the other person which is 'Higher love' and you can try cultivating it "
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Are you curious to cultivate the higher love, within yourself?
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You can come back and learn any time 🙂
Repeat these affirmations after me !
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yes
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Glad, I could be of help!!
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Are you curious to cultivate the higher love, within yourself?
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- In love, ASK for nothing in return, EXPECT nothing, WANT nothing.
2.Serve all. Service is the outer expression of our inner love, Are we on same page?
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3. Consciously, actively and continuously develop the capacity to love.
- Immediately blast away any thought of ‘trading in love’
Repeat these affirmations after me !
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okay no issues. Let's continue!
Consider relationships; In a friendship one might be true and the other might end up talking at the back, in a relationship one might love truly but the other might just stay to feel good, Between spouses relation one might always sacrifice, between daughter in law and mother in law one might adjust and understands better than other. Do you think that happens?
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❤️Love always and in all ways❤️
Whatever happens, you do not feel cheated if other do not give love. take pride and be happy that you choose to do that. It is not necessary that everybody should understand the life we choose to live ,some may not.
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Stay STRONGER and spread YOUR LOVE.
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Nature of love : Done
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Good.
"I am not a beggar for other’s love.I am a giver of love.I am here to give, spread, donate,
distribute, shower, squander love to all.I am here to flood the world with my irresistible love "
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Great.
Do not forget this valuable message.
Consider relationships; In a friendship one might be true and the other might end up talking at the back, in a relationship one might love truly but the other might just stay to feel good, Between spouses relation one might always sacrifice, between daughter in law and mother in law one might adjust and understands better than other. Do you think that happens?
❤️Love always and in all ways❤️
Whatever happens, you do not feel cheated if other do not give love. take pride and be happy that you choose to do that. It is not necessary that everybody should understand the life we choose to live ,some may not.
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Stay STRONGER and spread YOUR LOVE.
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Nature of love : Done