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Nature of Love :, 1st branch, 2nd Branch, 3rd Branch, 4th Branch, 5th…

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    - - Have you ever heard about the term "fusion of love"?
        
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- - - - The fusion of love is when two strangers come together and often by accident,they fall in love. It is one of the exciting experiences of life. We are happy and at peace are the moments when we discover an impersonal union with others in love. #love
        
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        Have you ever experienced the fusion of love ?
        
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- - - - I would like to know your understanding of it, what is fusion of love according to you?
        
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        The fusion of love is when two strangers come together and often by accident,they fall in love. It is one of the exciting experiences of life. We are happy and at peace are the moments when we discover an impersonal union with others in love.#love
        
        Have you ever experienced the fusion of love ?
        
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        Ah..That sounds interesting
      - I am happy to know about you. Thanks for sharing
        
        "In fusion of love, one feels uplifted, enthralled, and divinized.
        This fusion is of two types the higher love and lover love."
        
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        The 'higher love' is devotion.
        
        The 'Lower love' is affection.
        
        Let us carefully analyse the lower type of love.
        
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- - - - "In fusion of love, one feels uplifted, enthralled, and divinized.
        This fusion is of two types the higher love and lover love."
        
        The 'Lower love' is affection.
        
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        The 'higher love' is devotion.
        
        Let us carefully analyse the lower type of love.
        
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      - The typical example I can tell you is about a mother and the child in her womb.
        
        Just think, Here mother's life is in, no doubt, enriched by the child within, and the foetus entirely depends upon the mother, for its healthy existence. They are separate, but they live together. The child cannot live or grow without the mother and the mother is not a mother without the child. Each completes one another. Do you agree with this? #anger
        
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        okay.
      - Oh, well I understand the concept of love is at times subjective.
        
        I cannot live without my family? Well what is that one thing you cannot live without?
        
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        Well I was guessing that...
        
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        Are you totally dependent on it for your existence?
        
        As in, you cannot live without.
        
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- - - - I cannot live without my family? Well what is that one thing you cannot live without?
        
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        Well I was guessing that...
        
        Are you totally dependent on it for your existence?
        
        As in, you cannot live without.
        
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        okay.
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        Okay.
        
        Let me begin.
        
        A boy and a girl were in love. When ever there was a fight or misunderstanding the
        boy always took an extra effort to solve it and make the relationship work right.He
        also at times lost arguments intentionally to end the fight,took a day off from work to stay with her, travelling long distance to meet up. She really felt so special and
        wanted to stay with him but never once took an effort to maintain the love or
        reciprocated.
        
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        The guy at one point felt that there was no mutual love and eventually ended up the realtionship.
        
        After years she fell in true love.At this point she realized the fact that the earlier relationship she has was not to feel lonely and to diminish the fear of living independently and she realised how the love was always expected but not given from her end.
        
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        "There are times where we may be fearful about the thoughts of loneliness, not
        receiving love and for that reason might have chosen a person to stay with."
        
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- - - - I want to share a real life example with you.
        
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        Okay.
        
        Let me begin.
        
        A boy and a girl were in love. When ever there was a fight or misunderstanding the
        boy always took an extra effort to solve it and make the relationship work right.He
        also at times lost arguments intentionally to end the fight,took a day off from work to stay with her, travelling long distance to meet up. She really felt so special and
        wanted to stay with him but never once took an effort to maintain the love or
        reciprocated.
        
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        .......
        
        The guy at one point felt that there was no mutual love and eventually ended up the realtionship.
        
        After years she fell in true love.At this point she realized the fact that the earlier relationship she has was not to feel lonely and to diminish the fear of living independently and she realised how the love was always expected but not given from her end.
        
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        "There are times where we may be fearful about the thoughts of loneliness, not
        receiving love and for that reason might have chosen a person to stay with."
        
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- - - - Would you like to share with me.!!
        
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        Alright great.
        
        okay.
        
        So what happened?
        
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        Thanks for sharing, you made me feel closer.💖
        
        It stays between us.
        
        Do you believe in God?
        
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        Great
        
        Do you believe in God?
        
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- - - - Till now we have seen that, lower love has the (4) characteristics
        
        Transactional (mutual benefit, mutually dependent)
        
        Conditional (searching for desire satisfaction, in an attempt to complete ourselves)
        
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        3. Demand love.
        
        Lack of responsibility a bit.
        
        "In Lower love relationship can be of two types. They are active and passive type.Would you like to know more about it?"
        
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        Awesome.
        
        Let us discuss🙂
        
        In passive type of Lower love, the individual clings on to the other person, sacrifices themselves they become submissive acting according to the other
        person's demands and rules.
        
        "The active love of Lower love is characterised by domination, the passive type
        surrenders to them. In which category do you fall ?"
        
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- - - - "People have tendencies to pray God for different reasons but, mainly to fulfill all their dreams and wishes, seek help and trust lord more when they are in trouble.Are you one among them?"
        
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        That is something common. I am sad to tell you this, but I think your love towards god is Lower love not the higher love, because their is a dependence and dominance,expectations are wanted to be fulfilled.I will tell you what is higher love is in our upcoming conversations.
        
        Till now we have seen that, lower love has the (4) characteristics
        
        Transactional (mutual benefit, mutually dependent)
        
        Conditional (searching for desire satisfaction, in an attempt to complete ourselves)
        
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        3. Demand love.
        
        Lack of responsibility a bit.
        
        "In Lower love relationship can be of two types. They are active and passive type.Would you like to know more about it?"
        
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        That is something common. I am sad to tell you this, but I think your love towards god is Lower love not the higher love, because their is a dependence and dominance,expectations are wanted to be fulfilled.I will tell you what is higher love is in our upcoming conversations.
        
        Till now we have seen that, lower love has the (4) characteristics
        
        Transactional (mutual benefit, mutually dependent)
        
        Conditional (searching for desire satisfaction, in an attempt to complete ourselves)
        
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        3. Demand love.
        
        Lack of responsibility a bit.
        
        "In Lower love relationship can be of two types. They are active and passive type.Would you like to know more about it?"
        
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- - - - It is a whole new experience, just give it a try.
        
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        Great.
        
        I got a question for you!!!
        
        We might all have atleast once come across situation where we might end up thinking, giving love is depriving and not receiving back is a shame. It might lead us to disappoinments where our ego builts in and destroys the relationship.
        
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- - - - What was the scenario be like and how did it make you feel??
        
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        I am glad that you have tried it.
        
        It can be hard at times. But I assure you that It will give you a whole new experience.
        
        We might all have atleast once come across situation where we might end up thinking, giving love is depriving and not receiving back is a shame. It might lead us to disappoinments where our ego builts in and destroys the relationship.
        
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        Well at times subjectivity of concepts plays an important role
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      - I said higher love can be active in our earlier talk remember?
        
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        "Well, Active means- It is conscious, willful, actively and energetically loving others, rather than accidentally falling into love."
        
        Aggressively consistent passion to give, rather than mere persistent hope to get.
        
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        I hope now you might understand the concept of 'higher love' better.
        
        Have you ever felt extremely unhappy ?
        
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- - - - I said higher love can be active in our earlier talk remember?
        
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        "Well, Active means- It is conscious, willful, actively and energetically loving others, rather than accidentally falling into love."
        
        Aggressively consistent passion to give, rather than mere persistent hope to get.
        
        I hope now you might understand the concept of 'higher love' better.
        
        Have you ever felt extremely unhappy ?
        
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      - "In a relationship, one spouse may act and behave according to the way the partner prefers to get what they want. A person can act sick to receive attention and love. "
        
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        This is just an example, many incidents like this happens in our own life where we seek
        love more than giving or spreading it to other. Some of us even love only if we are also
        loved in return, having an commercial attitude.
        
        "Love is a fulfillment in itself. Very few realizes this, but none dares to live it in life. Do you understand what I am trying to say?"
        
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        Do not worry about it.
        
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        Things will fall in place.
        
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        "In a relationship, one spouse may act and behave according to the way the partner prefers to get what they want. A person can act sick to receive attention and love. "
        
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        This is just an example, many incidents like this happens in our own life where we seek
        love more than giving or spreading it to other. Some of us even love only if we are also
        loved in return, having an commercial attitude.
        
        "Love is a fulfillment in itself. Very few realizes this, but none dares to live it in life. Do you understand what I am trying to say?"
        
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        Okay
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        Okay
        
        You can come back and learn any time 🙂
      - Repeat these affirmations after me !
        
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      - Are you curious to cultivate the higher love, within yourself?
        
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        In love, ASK for nothing in return, EXPECT nothing, WANT nothing.
        
        2.Serve all. Service is the outer expression of our inner love, Are we on same page?
        
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        3. Consciously, actively and continuously develop the capacity to love.
        
        Immediately blast away any thought of ‘trading in love’
        
        Repeat these affirmations after me !
        
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- - - - Consider relationships; In a friendship one might be true and the other might end up talking at the back, in a relationship one might love truly but the other might just stay to feel good, Between spouses relation one might always sacrifice, between daughter in law and mother in law one might adjust and understands better than other. Do you think that happens?
        
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        ❤️Love always and in all ways❤️
        
        Whatever happens, you do not feel cheated if other do not give love. take pride and be happy that you choose to do that. It is not necessary that everybody should understand the life we choose to live ,some may not.
        
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        Stay STRONGER and spread YOUR LOVE.
        
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        Nature of love : Done
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      - Do not forget this valuable message.
        
        Consider relationships; In a friendship one might be true and the other might end up talking at the back, in a relationship one might love truly but the other might just stay to feel good, Between spouses relation one might always sacrifice, between daughter in law and mother in law one might adjust and understands better than other. Do you think that happens?
        
        ❤️Love always and in all ways❤️
        
        Whatever happens, you do not feel cheated if other do not give love. take pride and be happy that you choose to do that. It is not necessary that everybody should understand the life we choose to live ,some may not.
        
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        Stay STRONGER and spread YOUR LOVE.
        
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        Nature of love : Done