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The path of the meeting of Jorge Bucay, D151B5A5-C1D7-4094-8215…

- - - - In order to build a relationship of intimacy, there are certain things that have to happen according to << The path of encounter >>: love, attraction and trust. None of these three things depends on our will: not all encounters should end up being intimate relationships, but only these give meaning to the journey. I cannot be attracted to what you were, but to what you are now.
        
        Trust in an intimate relationship implies such a degree of sincerity with the other that one does not contemplate the possibility of lying to him.
        
        Loving is a feeling; being in love, a passion. Love consists, ultimately, in rejoicing at the very existence of the other.
  - - - On the one hand, there will always be a severe disorder in someone who does not love his own child, but there is not necessarily a severe structural disorder in someone who does not love his father or mother. He will suffer and suffer the history of not loving them, but he does not necessarily have a personality disorder.
      - On the other hand, a certain degree of neurosis serves the children, because they are going to live immersed in a neurotic society. Erich Fromm: “if a healthy man came to my office, my role would be to neuroticize him enough so that he could live adapted”.
      - The most relevant idea of the second part of The Way of Encounter is that it is not possible to live without oneself. The writer qualifies it as follows: “If there is someone who should be with me all the time, that someone is me. The idea of the meeting is based on two self-centered people who share their path without giving up their focus. "
- - - - Rousseau affirms that we are neither beasts nor gods. We are human beings and therefore we essentially need the consideration of others. Human nature is to feel incomplete in solitude.
    - - Adam Smith develops all his economic theory affirming that the search for the possession of goods is not because of wealth itself, but because one knows that with possessions one wins the sympathy and approval of others.