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How Do We Heal From Here? - Coggle Diagram

- - - - the good
        
        Dwayne
        
        Unconditional love, desire and affection
        
        Too far away
        
        Not an ideal, but a workable sexual match
        
        We're both bottoms with limited topping ability
        
        he wants to top me
        
        Teri
        
        Liked me (Love never felt like an appropriate word for either of us) for who I am and all that I am
        
        Sense of adventure
        
        Sense of wonder
        
        Joie de vivre
        
        Caring and concerned
        
        Extremely open minded
        
        With Rachel
        
        Wearing Korean facial masks
        
        Alison scarfing the pot brownies despite our warning
        
        Practicing walking in heels with Alison at Rachel’s on New Years day(?)
        
        Thinking a double date with our other dates would be a good idea
        
        Finding out it wasn’t
        
        With Celeste
        
        I cheated on her
        
        Devoted mother
        
        I felt shut out after we had our daughter
        
        no sex
        
        less attention (I felt more so than should be expected)
        
        was I being selfish? I don't think I was
        
        I was never envious of my wife's love for ouur daughter - I think it's wonderful
        
        Supposed life partner
      - the less good
        
        Dani
        
        Getting drunk with you and friendly strangers at SRO
        
        San Diego trip
        
        Watching you sleep with your hair radiating from you
        
        Beautiful
        
        Peaceful
        
        Still - Calm
        
        Sleeping nude?
        
        Rope bondage class
        
        BDSM Sex Party
        
        she was buckwild
        
        I was reserved
        
        She took a man home and invited me to join
        
        I foolishly didn't
        
        I feel unresolved with her
        
        She claimed to think I was suggesting we just be friends and agreed
        
        I wasn't suggesting it and attempts to clear up the situation failed
        
        After that she seemed to ghost me
        
        Lori
        
        Refused to follow the rules
        
        Had to be drunk to have sex with me
        
        I still don't know if I was anything more than someone to use
        
        bad news
        
        Occasionally tries to contact me
        
        Sista Friend
        
        We don't communicate well
        
        I don't feel like I can trust her
        
        She seems to evolve(?) to desire what ever I am and are capable of
        
        She's a size queen but wanted me despite having a slightly larger than average penis
        
        Now that I have embraced my femme nature, she claims to want to peg me
        
        She was in town a year or two ago and implied she wanted to get together. I didn't pursue it because she also claimed she was there to save her daughter and her grandchildren from an abusive relationship. I worried that she was hoping I would help. I don't think it would have been appropriate, and I doubt I would have been much help. I would have felt further diminished in her eyes
        had I tried and failed
        
        We had a disasterous one night stand
        
        ED was a problem
        
        My promises to Rachel were a problem
        
        My concern for my recently widowed dad
  - - - All you see is our differences
    - - Laughing stock
- - - - try singing cords with the root, 3rd and 5th having their own track
        
        create the cords via piano
        
        split into root, 3rd and 5th tracks
        
        sing each on a different track