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Non-dual Purpose - Coggle Diagram
Non-dual Purpose
How-to
Ensure Independence from practicioner
Permissioning ways in which people are different
When you become curious / interested
don't "have" to do anything
Build their awareness
Leave things up to them to sort out what to do about
Listening / Witnessing
Reflecting
THEMES TO CONSIDER
Seeking practiconer approval
bring awareness to this, use it as a tool consciously if desired
dialog
Help people find their truth
only encourage them to do things they want to do, have innate motivation and energy around
Conditions
Gifedness
Highest IQ people don't make others feel bad
High IQ people want companions
it's a way to place if people are above average intelligence vs high IQ
Challenges
Being understood
hard to feel really gotten by lower complexity organisms
Connection
autism & giftedness commonly co-occur
Autism
Different Values
Non-harming
looking for novel solutions
everything is complex
respecting autonomy
Challenges
navigating conflict
conflict can cause overwhelm
translating and explaining complexity to others
completion of mundane tasks and work
desire to re-create every time
route vs __ memory
Empaths
feeling a lot = higher complexity
navigating emotions intelligently
wanting mutually beneficial relationships
Phases of Finding Purpose
Depressed and Lost (ie. Morgan)
low self esteem
imposter syndrome
feeling you should be able to achieve more but can't
might have a biological issue (depression, low energy, chronic fatigue)
theories
building a sense of success might help
success spirals
having an outside source break down a project
therapy might help (ie. Kesha)
Fed up with under achieving and has energy to do more (ie. Kelly)
has had successful endeavors in the past
has had life collapse to some extent (maybe awakening or psychedelic use), but is ready to move beyond it
ready for integration
benefits from having someone see and affirm capabilities
UNGROUNDED
ie Nora (and Kelly a little bit)
need structure and clarity to ground into
"Young"
benefits from having a mentor see possibilities for them
side note: the world really needs mentorship! Young people need people who can help guide them
needs value and potential affirmed
needs help putting together a vision for themselves
Goals
Create Freedom
Sovereignty
How
Taking Responsibility for your life
Earning passive income
owning cryptocurrency
become location independent
Mindset
Perception: what is true? What is real? How do I know this?
Sense-making: What does this really mean?
Agency: What can I really do about this? How can I act independently?
Audiences
Intelligent Empaths
Kevin D
Malia
Mojica
Bryan T
Women also with Autism
Anna
Vera
Strategies
Options
Solve your issues / Seek Change
Find external supports for your challenges
diet
supplements
nootropics
heal trauma
appropriate exercise
How much energy to devote to searching for a solution?
Get somebody else to d what you can't easily do
Supporting function
issues: co-dependence in relationship
hiring help, assistants, getting assistance
Accept what you cannot change & lower expectations you have of yourself