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love, "each of us has a unique capacity for love" - Coggle…

- - - - demands
  - - - doesn't look and need anybody else
      - survival mechanism
        
        finding the perfected form
        
        living your convictions
      - by transcending the not self and learning the mechanics you transform what love is
        
        you can only love yourself if you are you
        
        there's nothing to change, there's something to be
        
        the perfection of form
    - - "if they love me maybe there is something to love here!"
        
        wait for somebody to love them
        
        "love is about being loved"
        
        "I am nothing without you"
        "I can not live in this world without you"
        
        you define yourself through the eyes of the other
        
        desperation and need
        
        "I love you because you wake me up"
  - - - the tribe thrives by having financial success
        
        "I couldn't be a success without you"
        
        lament of the housewife
        
        she doesn't have money
        
        "if it weren't for me you wouldn't have this kind of life"
        
        love that controls the money
      - hard to be togeher when you are poor in the west
        
        wealth improves love, true
        
        looking towards future, success, growth
        
        you appreciate materially the relation
      - fear of the past: everything passes
  - - - "I'm doing all this for you so you'd better love me"
        
        waiting for somebody to work for
        
        so that they earn love. "I deserve love because of my efforts"
        
        the mule: "I'm working for the family"
        
        "so you owe me"
        
        expectations of being loved and thanked
        
        guilt
      - truth: respect, appreciation
        
        you love to deliver the work and pay people
        
        you are there to provide
      - ego doesn't like to work
        
        they work for a reason
        
        they don't if not appreciated
        
        but if nobody to work for, they stop working
        
        a reason for working
        
        so they discover love
  - - - deepest memory of love
        
        18 is the source of all challange
        
        challenge the archetype of mother and father, of male and female
        
        in that way, liberation and perfection through continuous demand
        
        but it can destroy a relationship
        
        you don't want somebody that shows you that you're not clean
        
        love that proves the strength of love
        
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        endless dissatisfaction
        
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      - creating and correcting to find perfect love
        
        let me tell you how you must behave
        
        so I can be in love with you
        
        "you're a jerk and I'm telling you because I love you"
- - - - you see which one belongs to you
  - - - potential of transcendent love
        
        non-personal, trans-personal
        
        finding love through somebody
        
        loving gates
        
        always look beyond you for greater love
        
        one that has them in cross of vessel of love is loving but it doesn't mean they love you
        
        learn to deal with that without taking it personal
        
        2 more items...
    - - demands of personal connectivity
        
        illusions of personal love
        
        finding love with somebody
        
        also gates of hate
        
        protection
      - mundane keynotes
        
        finding love through themes with the other
      - personal love
- - - - initiating love
        
        needs to be initiated
        
        in the transpersonal sense
        
        "loving"
        
        "priest"
    - - quarter of initiation
  - - - human beings
        
        breaths of love
      - love of humanity
        
        love of being human
        
        "politician"
        
        how you should love in your form
        
        "let's organize humanity in a way so that they don't kill eachother"
        
        constitution & moral standard
        
        tolerance
        
        so the society keeps developing
        
        collective vision of how human beings are supposed to get along
        
        gate of extremes
        
        potential of concentration camps/killing fields
        
        let's get rid of the people who don't love
        
        doesn't mean that they love you
  - - - tantric channel
    - - connected to splenic center
      - accepting the beauty and perfection of our vehicle.
        
        accept strategy and authority
        
        recognizing the beauty of each body
        
        love IS this form
        
        loving its limitations
        
        holy vehicle
        
        by loving their vehicle they arrive at loving others
        
        I am what I am
        
        always is in the right place in the right time
    - - looking to discover the magic of the vehicle in everyone
  - - - rarely drawn into the personal
        
        absorbed in themselves
    - - confusion between the two
        
        finding the way in the now
        
        surrender to the precariousness of life
        
        everything changes
        
        accept everything and everyone
        
        this is the world and I love it
        
        this is the world and I hate it
        
        the behaviour of the world
        
        to accept the world is to accept the truth
        
        we are not in charge
    - - loving being alive and dying in the world
        
        the world is real
        
        also perversion
        
        the world is as it is with all its strange
- - - - labels
        
        desire
        
        passion
        
        true love
        
        love is a generic term
      - find the connectivity that gives satisfction and realization
- - - - illusion
        
        with awareness you come to realize it's a trap
        
        puts you off track
      - discomfort
- - - - only aspects of love
- - - - life begins when they separate
        
        like this we lose love
        
        oneness
        
        wholeness
        
        you wanna find love? die!