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Family Conflicts, Summary: The importance to prevent conflicts is to…
Family Conflicts
Between Parents
Unfaithfulness - Situations like cheating couples have the same root cause which is unfaithfulness between two person. You have to be truthful in order to maintain a good relationship.
Lack of time for each other - A couple have to know their partner very well in order to live happily together. By spending time with each other will strengthen the bond between them.
Lack of awareness in one's responsibility - If one of the parents lacks awareness in his or her responsibility, the other parent have to do all the work.
Violence - Violence is not the way to solve problems, it will always worsen the situation.
Difference in personality - Parents' personalities depend on how they were raised when they were young. Each parents have different ways of thinking and different interests.
Incompatibility of relatives - Sometimes partner are disliked by another partner's relatives. This may be affected by their background and their behaviour.
How to solve
Discuss present problems - Stay with the present, don't take the problems in the past to argue with each other.
Give the other person a chance to
explain their reasoning- Listening to the other side can give you a different perspective and can eventually agree on something together.
Talk when one is ready- When someone talks when they are not ready, they express a different tone and can be more grumpy which usually leads to prolonged conflicts.
Make sure that both sides understand
each others point of view- This is also important because it can lead to a faster solution to the conflict.
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The accused must try to understand
a problematic issue or conflict - The accused must try to find cause of the situation and why they're being blamed.
How to prevent
Accountability of behaviour - You have to adjust some of your behaviours in order to live happily with your happily.
Adapting oneself- By adapting, you can blend in with other people in the house better which reduces chances of conflicts.
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Avoidance of violence - Violence wont solve the problems, instead, you should talk your way out and find the best solution.
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Understand rules- Follow the rules set in the house so that conflict will not be developed as everyone is controlled under the law.
Between Siblings
Unequal treatment of parents - Some parents are biased. This leads to unequal treatment and conflicts between siblings.
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Competition - There are many competitions that siblings can have such as grades, property and attention from parents.
Property- Kids share different things in the house and they compete for it such as food, toys, games etc.
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Summary: The importance to prevent conflicts is to maintain a healthy family relationship. The methods are very straightforward such as negotiation and equal treatment given to children.