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Family Conflict, Summary In the present day, there are many types of…

- - - - When another person lies to another person they will have unfaithfulness to others.
    - - when you tell that you will go to work but you are going on a date with another person so you are unfaithful
  - - - When you do not have much time to spend with.
    - - when your boyfriend needs to go to work he needs to spend most of the time with work so he will not have the time to spend with you.
  - - - Parents need to have responsibility to take care of their children but sometimes they do not have time to spend with their children much, so children will think that they do not love.
    - - Parents need to have responsibility to take care of their children but sometimes they do not have time to spend with their children much, so children will think that they do not love.
  - - - when they have the problem they decide to fight with each other to solve.
    - - When you don't understand each other or argue, your boyfriend uses force to keep the woman out of the house instead of having the woman tell you why she did it.
  - - - Mom have the nature of cool mood but dad have the nature of snappish when it has conflict dad will not understand why mom always calm and not doing the things that she thinks will have more conflict but dad will think that he is all doing correct because she is doing not thing.
    - - Nature is a basic constitution but personality is the characteristics that you can set from biological and environmental factors.
  - - - Both relatives did not like each other and caused both parties to quarrel.
    - - The couple decided to engage and tell relatives, but when they found out, they tried to interrupt because they knew that the other party was someone who didn't like each other.
- - - - Parents who growth up in the difference time with their child use their life in the past to be a standard for their child even many things change from the past.
    - - Parent give their child only 20 bath to school like they get when they was a child, but it isn't enough for the present day.
  - - - In some family parents have a very high expectation on their child. That can make their child get too much force from their parent
    - - In some family, parents have very high expectation on their child study result. That can make their child get too much force, and close their mind from their parents.
  - - - Parents who always complain their child when they do anythings wrong or treat their child inequality can make their child annoy of them.
    - - Some parents treat their child who have a better study result different from other. That can cause other child to annoyed and feel worthless.
  - - - Some parent are very strict with their child and concern about how their child friends behavior are.
    - - Parents who are very concern might order their child to get away from their friend who have aggressive behavior or not have enough responsible.
- - - - When there's a conflict in the family, you have to wait until the person you want to talk/speak to ready to talk first.
    - - Mother gets really angry with her son because he failed the test. So she yells at him and says something bad. After that her son never talked to her again, so she had to say sorry to her son and wait until he was ready to talk with her.
  - - - When there’s a conflict, don’t just blame one person in the family without listening to anything or even let them explain what happens.
    - - There’s a glass break in the middle of the night, and when one of the family members whose mother sees that the one that broke it is her daughter, she just walks to her daughter and asks what happened without blame or hurt her daughter at all.
  - - - When talking to other family members, you have to make sure that what you understand them is the same as what they understand you.
    - - You understand what your father says in a wrong way and you did what she has asked you to do wrong, so you have to talk to your father again and make sure that you understand your father correctly.
  - - - Conflict can’t be stopped if both parties do not compromise, so you have to be ready to compromise when time comes or when there’s a conflict in your family.
    - - You fight with your parents because they promised you that they will buy you a new phone, but they don’t do what they have been promised. So you have to compromise because you see that now your parents have financial problems, they didn’t mean to break their promises.
- - - - Stay together in a family, give love to each other and care for each other.
    - - Mother always helps her kids doing their homework, caring for them, and putting them to bed everyday with a goodnight kiss.
  - - - Before you say something. You have to think carefully about your family members feelings too, what will they feel when you say those words out.
    - - When your brother got a low score, you should say something to make him feel better, don’t just laugh at him and walk away.
  - - - Do not use violence to solve problems in your family.
    - - Mother heard her son say bad words, so she walked to him and taught him not to say those words again without hurting him or using any violence.
  - - - Follow and understand the rules of your family.
    - - When your family sets a rule to go to bed at 10p.m. Everyone has to follow the rules and go to bed on time.
- - - - when they do not know how to play with siblings, so they decide to fight instead.
    - - Two brothers playing with their toys. But the younger sister felt that she didn't get any attention from his so she threw the toys on and hit his face. So my older brother got very angry and quarreled.
  - - - when children are hungry they will feel frustrated and try to fight to make you know that they are hungry.
    - - when you realise that this time you have to cook for your children, it makes the kid very hungry and screams. it frustrates the children so they will try to annoy each other.
  - - - when you get a bad grade you tell your parents that you get a bad grade and then they berate but difference for your siblings when they say they get encouragement from their parents.
    - - when they think that they do not get love the same as others.
  - - - when they have stress they will feel angry and when another doing something that they don’t like it will have a conflict.
    - - The teacher called him over, because he was not doing well, so the teacher had to call his parents to meet him, causing him to be very stressed. When he came home, he met his sibling playing with his toys and made him very angry because he had stress from school before.