Family conflicts By Ploy#11 Punpun#16
Between siblings
Prevent conflicts in the family
Resolve conflicts in the family
Between parents and children
Between husband and wife
Difference in age
Property
Competition
Unequal treatment from parents
Unfaithfulness
Lack of time for each other
Lack of awareness of one’s responsibility
Difference in personality
Expectation
Parental factors
Overall Behavior of parents and children
The main point of preventing conflict is understanding each other in the family and change behavior to live well together. Good communication skills to decrease the risk of having a misunderstanding. Somehow, the member should follow the rule well.
For instance, My older brother and I often have a conflict on Netflix. We are fighting to watch Netflix because we can only watch Netflix one device at a time due to the promotion that we bought. According to this problem, we have to do follow the time table strictly. To avoid having a conflict. Every time that other person doesn't do follow the rule, we need to keep everything to a calm tone and find a way to solve this problem (Change the timetable along with event each day ).
For instance, I like to watch TV on 5 am. However, the left of my family always read a book at that time. So, I have to change behaviour to live well.
Summary
The key to resolving conflicts in the family is to keep a calm tone to avoid shouting. Use an indoor voice because the angry sound often leads to landing out. Try to solve solutions together to make this scenario don’t happen again.
Discuss only the present problem. Express how one feels directly to make people that argue with you understand another size feeling. Give the other person a chance to explain their reasoning.
Violence
Incompatibility of relatives
Having different opinion and disagreeing on each other's ideas may lead the couple to fight and they both don't want to express their speech out.
A misunderstanding that occurs when one of them is doing something not clear and another does not rely on them.
A couple that are not straight forward or cheating on their couple.
And it may lead to divorce because of cheating on each other.
Not spending time doing something with your family or not managing their time to have more time with the family. This problem occurs in many families and it may leads to divorce or fight in the family.
A husband or wife solving their problem using violence and attacking each other and both of them might be injured.
A problem which occurs in many families, one member on any side of the family hates another person on another family. Or sometimes their parents do not agree with their relationship.
The intense emotional distress of parents, that can happens sometime when a parent loses control of their emotions in yell behavior to a child.
Some parents enforce the children's dream to achieve a stable job in the future. This problem makes children being depressed.
Parent control is too tight. Over protection is a risk factor for childhood anxiety. Most of these contradictory effects are motive by the disruption of parenting.
Generation gap
there is a gap in the age different generations have actions, beliefs, interests, and opinions that are different.
There are many ways that the children might fight because they want to be the best or the first for examples; games, grades, popularity etc.
A younger sibling may annoy an older sibling or an older sibling may bully and making fun of a younger sibling, so at last they get fight.
Usually parents make their children share stuff together and sometime if they want the same thing at the same time they will fight for what they want.
If one sibling gets treated specially than the other sibling, the other sibling might get jealous and want to get more attention from their parents by doing bad action.
Overall, conflicts happen because two people fight with each other, but if only one person wants to fight but the other keeps calm, the conflict won't happen. Although everyone should avoid fighting with others, by trying to understand and change or set their behavior based on who that you talk with.