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Family Conflicts, By: Sea and Kaopun M.301, Summary:
Preventing and…
Family Conflicts
Between Siblings
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Difference in age
- The difference in age cause a difference in maturity that could make an opinion or an action be argure about.
- Little brother crying over video games and big brother is annoyed and questioned how are you crying.
Competition
- Trying to outdone each other, mostly to show to their parents that they are better.
- The little brother is performing better at school which make him gain compliments from their parent and the big brother get jealous and start to make a conflict
Property
- The child that have more stuff will brag about it which may annoyed the other and cause in a conflict
- Big brother bragged about having an Iphone, little brother get jealous and break his phone.
Between Parents
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Unfaithfulness
- Unfaithfulness will cause both of them to not trust each other and will always make both of them paranoid of the others and create problems that shouldn't exist.
- The husband loss one of his watch and he doesn't trust anyone in the family, he keep accusing his wife causing a conflict between them.
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Violence
- Conflict can be done in many ways, but doing it physically or using violnece is the worst way to do it and is a sure way for the partner to be seperated from the aggressor.
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How to Prevent Conflict
- Love and caring each other. This will make family members feel warm, peace, empowered and able to trust one another. If one of them have a problem, they will talk to the family and solve the problem together,
- Good communication skills Some people don't know how to communitcate and that make the situation more wrost, so good communication is another important way to prevent conflict. Use polite word. Understand the feeling of family members and be a good listener.
- Avoidance of violence If there is a problem in family, we should start with talking, not begin with violence, yelling or shouting. We can other through reasons and find a resoulution peacefully. This will make happiness to your family and will have good relationship.
- Accept your own behavior When you do something wrong, always say "sorry", and that person should adjust such behaviror, so they can live together with thier family.
- Try to adapt yourself to your family Everyone have different natures. When many people stay togther, there always conflict among them. They have to adjust thier behavior, so they can live together without conflict.
- Understand rules Follow the rules of family and not break it. When someone break it, there must be some punishment
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Summary:
Preventing and solving conflicts is the main way to keep the family as one and create a sense that everybody love each other. Practicing it will make your family don't need to deal with the situation where everybody is blaming each other, resurrecting old conflicts and also starting news one. In which, will make the one arguing hate each other and the one not in the conversion be annoyed.