Family Conflicts

Between Siblings

By: Sea and Kaopun M.301

Between Parents

Between Parents and Children

How to Prevent Conflict

How to resolve conflicts in the family

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  • Love and caring each other. This will make family members feel warm, peace, empowered and able to trust one another. If one of them have a problem, they will talk to the family and solve the problem together,

Unequal treatments from parents

Difference in age

Competition

Property

  • Trying to outdone each other, mostly to show to their parents that they are better.
  • Good communication skills Some people don't know how to communitcate and that make the situation more wrost, so good communication is another important way to prevent conflict. Use polite word. Understand the feeling of family members and be a good listener.
  • Parents like the other child more because they obey them more or is better academically
  • The difference in age cause a difference in maturity that could make an opinion or an action be argure about.
  • Avoidance of violence If there is a problem in family, we should start with talking, not begin with violence, yelling or shouting. We can other through reasons and find a resoulution peacefully. This will make happiness to your family and will have good relationship.
  • The child that have more stuff will brag about it which may annoyed the other and cause in a conflict
  • The little brother is performing better at school which make him gain compliments from their parent and the big brother get jealous and start to make a conflict
  • The little brother getting better care from their parents and the big brother frame him for something bad.
  • Little brother crying over video games and big brother is annoyed and questioned how are you crying.
  • Accept your own behavior When you do something wrong, always say "sorry", and that person should adjust such behaviror, so they can live together with thier family.
  • Big brother bragged about having an Iphone, little brother get jealous and break his phone.

Difference in personality

Unfaithfulness

Lack of time for each other

Violence

Incompatibility of relatives

  • This cause the family to feel seperated and not know how each others feel which may cause someone to act in a way others don't like.
  • Unfaithfulness will cause both of them to not trust each other and will always make both of them paranoid of the others and create problems that shouldn't exist.
  • When one of the spouse's relative dislike the husband or wife. It may force the spouse to dislike the husband or wife or relative.
  • Try to adapt yourself to your family Everyone have different natures. When many people stay togther, there always conflict among them. They have to adjust thier behavior, so they can live together without conflict.
  • Understand rules Follow the rules of family and not break it. When someone break it, there must be some punishment

Express your feelings directly Everyone should say what they feel to family. Telling other always better than criticizing other emotionall.

Lack of awareness of one’s responsibilities

  • In a good family everyone need to have responsibilities and need to play a part in the category that you can.
  • Conflict can be done in many ways, but doing it physically or using violnece is the worst way to do it and is a sure way for the partner to be seperated from the aggressor.

Talk when ready When you want to ask, you should wait untill ready physically and emotionally.

  • Discuss only about present problem Don't mix all tissue or problem together and must use non-aggresive words.

Everyone must have a chace to explain ther reson Listen to other, don't jude too quickly. Maybe they have a good reasons.

  • Both sides must understand each other point of view Everyone must have different point of view, so we shouldn't force or anything.

The accused must try to understand
a problematic issue or conflict He or she must have a proof to show that he or she is being blamed for somethings.

  • Always ready to compromise One must be ready to meet the opponent halfway to talk and ready for the consequence.
  • Have a sincere goal to build a happy family This is a basic things, every family should have it. Making happiness to your family.
  • Humans will always have a kind of people that they like and kinds that they dislike. So sometimes when people get married to early they don't get to learn their spuse whole personality.
  • Both of the child's parents works long hours, so they won't have time for their child and the child won't have connection or respect to them.
  • The husband loss one of his watch and he doesn't trust anyone in the family, he keep accusing his wife causing a conflict between them.
  • The relatives of the wife doesn't her husband and try making up fake stories to make him look bad and causing them to break up.
  • The husband who usually do laundry doesn't want to do the laundry, he tell his wife to do it for him, she don't want to do it . The husband get annoyed and

Expectation

Friends choice :

Behaviors of parents

Generation gap

  • Sometimes behaviors of parents can annoyed the children because sometime they make restrictions and when there are a lot the children can't handle it.
  • Parents set up restriction on playing video game time, sleeping schedule and awake shedule, this annoyed the children and they stop following instuction completely
  • Parents tend to expect way too much expectation for their children and this will led to stress, sadness and the kid having a breakdown
  • Parents setting up a strict tutoring schedule for the children and when they get a low score put even more tutoring in their schedule, this may led to them being depressed.
  • Parents being the one who choose their children's friend and punishing them from having "bad" friends.
  • A child have a friend with someone who have bad grade and their parents tell him to stop being friend with them.
  • Some parents have an old view of how their children should act and punished them from acting differently.
  • The parents punishing their children from being on the internet and never give a logica explaination.

Summary:
Preventing and solving conflicts is the main way to keep the family as one and create a sense that everybody love each other. Practicing it will make your family don't need to deal with the situation where everybody is blaming each other, resurrecting old conflicts and also starting news one. In which, will make the one arguing hate each other and the one not in the conversion be annoyed.