Family Conflicts
Summary
The families have so many problems but most of them come from 3 main categories, Husband and Wife, Siblings and parents/children.
These problems are mostly from not believing each others, not trusting them or to overcome/overdo something and try to be more superior than others. The way we prevent it is to behave and treat others equally, both mother and father, brothers and sisters. This way, the problems will be less and the family will be happy.
Siblings
Husband and Wife
Parents and Children
How to prevent the conflicts?
How to resolve the conflicts
Personality differences
Unfaithfulness
Competitions
The belief that one must perform better than others in everything such as grades, behaviours, popularity and more.
Outperforming others make the difference in skills and knowledge, making them jealous at each others.
Husbands and wife that have different habits and personalities might have a chance of creating a conflict between each others because some of their characteristics might be incompatible to each other. This might make them argue with each others.
Unequal treatment
Getting treated unequally due to their age difference or performance, this made the siblings be jealous of each others.
The parents arguing with each other might also be a bad role model for their children, making the children get some of the bad habits from their father and mother as well.
Difference in age
Age difference in siblings might create problems of being treated unequally, difference maturity levels and more.
Due to the maturity levels,the Siblings with more than two years' age difference scored better than children born closer together. This may be because they had more one-to-one time with their parents.
Property
Siblings owning properties, this make them share less with others, might result in different problems.
This problem is very common in many families, because either their husbands or wives are unfaithful to each others. This does not only mean cheating on somebody but also having secrets or not believing each others.
Awareness of one's responsibility
Husbands and wives have different duties to do in their lives but sometimes, they don't believe that one of them is unable to perform it as well as they could.
Lack of time for each others
Husbands and wives that spend most of their time on working for money and did not take time to spend with others. This might result in the distance of their relationships
Violence
Some families are violence based, not only using violence with their child but also using it when arguing. If some families have this problem, this could lead to a serious conflict for sure.
Incompatibility relatives
Some extended families have so many relatives, this might result in the incompatibility of time, money, relationship and more.
Behaviors
Expectation
Friend choice
Generation Gap
Some parents do not let their children to have the friends of their choices. The children of the parents might forbid their children to have the friends if they think they won't suit their child even though they have been friends for a long time. This problem is quite strong and needed to be fixed delicately.
Technologies might have the affect on the relationships between the parents and the children. Social medias have the main effect on the children. Sometimes the parents might not be able to understand the children and judge them in the wrong way, this might result in more conflicts.
Children might develop different habits and behaviours which some parents might not be able to go along with it. If they are unable to teach and adjust their children's attitude to them, this will result in some harder problems.
Parents that have high expectations on their children might make the children loose their own self-confidence. The reason of their expectations is all for their children but they did not even know what their children want.
Talk together to know what other's problem and solve it together.
Try to find the cause of problems and fix it the right way.
The parents shouln't expect thier child very high but support them
Children should listen to parents and don't be lazy.
Try to set up a set of rules that all of the members in the family agree and use it to prevent problems.
Use the least violence or never use it.
Look at both sides of the conficts. Since family problems happen either from the children or the parents, the way of solving it is to look at it in the other's perespective.