Family Dynamic
Between Siblings
Between Parents
Between Parents and Children
Prevent Conflict
Expectation
Friend choice
Behaviors of parents
Generation gap
Lack of time for each other
Unequal treatment from parents
Difference in age
Competition
Property
Violence
Unfaithfulness
Lack of awareness of one’s responsibility
Summary: Every type of families system can have the conflict. The conflicts may be between siblings, parents or parents and children, but we can resolve the conflict and prevent it. In conflict between siblings, parents, and parents and children on each one it have move than 1 reason. The important of preventing and resolving the conflict in family are build relationships with family members, leads to goals achievement, etc.
when trying to make yourself better that your siblings ( game, grade, etc.)
when one sibling get special treatment from parents ( good grade, being younger, etc.
a younger sibling have annoyed a older sibling.
feel angry when sibling take/borrow/use you property.
Parents always see their children as a kids, even though they have grown up to be teenage.
Parents expectation on their children. If children can not be or can not do what parents want. it will lead to violent in the family.
Some parents are too strict on their kids.
Resolve Conflict
Start to listen each other with reasons
Start talking with reasons
Ask adult to be middle person.
Don't use emotional
Emotional can start the bad fight. use soft tone of voice when speak.
Be calm and speak with smooth tone of voice to each others.
Be patience and choose the word wisely and do not start the fight.
Tell the true reason of your action do not lie.
Listen to other side with patience and do not interrupt until your turn to speak.
Come with an open mind and be neutral.
If there is conflict that need to be solve, let the middle person handle the conflict wisely.
Ask parent or someone older to listen to both side and be the judge.
Have competition with sibling.
One of them angry
Younger sibling get more take care or responsibility from parents.
Different in gender.
Some parents spoil their kids by do everything and give everything kids want. It will hurt them when they grow up.
Parents dislike kid friends as friends has lot of influence on their kids.
social today and 20 years ago are difference, parents have to understand that the world is changing all the time.
This is very sensitive issue the more parent try to stop them, the more they will do it.
Parent compare their kids with others and want to be better than other kids.
Love and care for each others in the family
Start giving and helpful for all members in the family.
build the good relationship in the family.
Do not be violent to each other
Talk with reason do not keep quiet
Make everyone in family understand rules
Don't start violent behaviour in the family.
Speak with reason don't speak word is violent.
Share your feeling to other member.
Be reasonable and keep it as habit.
Misunderstanding about other jobs.
Have different jobs.
Not being faith to each other.
Not spending time with other.
Cannot split time equal.
Use the action and emotional to solve problems.
Not have reasonable.
Create the rules that everyone accept and should follow.
Have the punishment for the person in family not follow the rules and the punishment everyone must accept it.
Difference in personality
Incompatibility of relatives
Different in emotional and background
Cannot agree with other ideas.
Not have the same ideas.