Man falls in a hole, struggles to free himself for a while, and all attempts fail.
As his self esteem starts to shake, he starts to question himself and his ability.
Soon, it starts to rain, filling the hole with water.
Along comes a counselor, and, seeing the man in the hole, asks him how he feels about it.
The man considers it, and figures it really sucks.
Counselor says "ok, but that's all the time I have, I'll be back in a week"
Now man is focused on problem, and is absolutely crushed
Doctor walks by, writes him a prescription, and walks off
A friend walks by, sees him, and jumps in.
Man is outraged, why would he jump in?
Friend says "it's ok...I've been here before"