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Chapter 7 (Vocabulary (Intimacy: A state of closeness between two people.…
Chapter 7
Vocabulary
Intimacy: A state of closeness between two people. Intimacy can be manifested in several ways, physically, mentally, emotionally.
Developmental models: Theoretical frameworks baed on the idea that communication patters are different in various stages of interpersonal relationships
family: a collation of people who share affection and resources and who think of themselves and present themselves as a family
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social exchange theory: the idea that we seek out people who can give us rewards that are greater than or equal to the costs we encounter in dealing with them
relational message: A message that expresses the social relationship between two or more individuals
phubbing: a mixture of the words phone and snubbing used to describe episodes in which people pay more attention to their devices than they do to the people around them
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Interpersonal communication: Two-way interactions between people who are part of a close and irreplaceable relationship in which they treat each other as unique individuals
immediacy: the degree of interest and attraction we feel toward and communicate to others. As with all relational messages, immediacy, is usually expressed nonverbally
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metacommunication: messages that refer to other messages, communication about communication
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self-disclosure: the process of deliberately revealing information about oneself that is significant and that would not be normally be known by others
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social penetration model: a theory that describes how intimacy can be achieved via the breadth and depth of self-disclosure
dialectical model: the perspective that people in virtually all interpersonal relationships must deal with equally important, simultaneous, and opposing forces such as connection and autonomy, predictability, and novelty, and openness versus privacy.
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altruistic lies: deception intended to be unmalicious, or even helpful to the person to whom it is told
Examples from the book
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Lot in common: If married couples are more likely they are more likely to succeed in their relationship
Nonthreatening mediated communication: Sociolinguist Deborah Tannen, she said talking online with a bashful colleague was easier
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Aya and Ying's cyber relationship has blossomed in the virtual world. They are strangers in one hand, and close in another
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Interpersonal relationship: Eduardo doesn't know Martina well but he strikes up a conversation so he can learn more about her.
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Key Ideas
Dialectical perspective of interpersonal relationships: Relationships must negotiate to satisfy opposing or incompatible forces, both within themselves and with one another
Self-disclosure in interpersonal relationships: it is the process of deliberately revealing info about oneself that is significant and that would not normally be known by others.
Lies and evasions: People are likely to experience deceit, even in their closest, most intimate relationships. People lie more than they realize.
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There are altruistic lies(harmless, little lies), evasions(They are vague), and self-serving lies(makes you feel good).
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Examples from your life
I've had a lot of instances where first impressions were wrong because i met them at the wrong time. Especially at work
In this day and age, I utilize mediated communication to meet other people whether students or friends because I feel more comfortable. I even met my boyfriend through a dating app.
I would have i have a strong bond with my grandparents. They help create a path in my life. They play a big role in my life.
Before me and my boyfriend were together we went through all the stages of getting to know each other based on physical attractiveness as the first and down the list.
I have a lot of friendships in my life. Most short term friendships when I was little and now going towards long term friendships. I have a lot of guy friends and the question of can women and men be friends comes up a lot.
At work I utilize self-serving lies in order to adapt to my new job in order to make me feel better.