conflict management stages 11.3 (step 1. set the stage (this talks about…
conflict management stages 11.3
step 1. set the stage
this talks about taking the fight from online to offline to also make sure that both people are ok with talking about that situation right now and make sure its with in both your controls to fix it.
I think my past relationships we failed at this but now me and her both try to discus this when we are walking or before bed
step 2. define the conflict
this section is about how you should be very specific and make sure you are discussing the actuall issue and not that toothpaste is open but that one. person is avoiding helping around the house. make sure you are strait out and not cutting coroners . focus on the present. and make sure to try to understand how they feel.
my mom and her boyfriend are great at this they are always using this method with out realizing.
step 3. identify your goals
this part is about how you should come up with goals like do you both want to end the relationship or do you want to find anyway to keep the relationship going.
I don't ever do this in relationship but I will defiantly try this on my new one cause I want to stay with her forever
step 4. identify and evaluate your choices
this section is about brainstorming ideas on how to resolve the issues at hand and evaluating them to see if they are fit for the situation and selected one.
we haven't done this for a few issues in my relationship and we will have to.
step 5. act on the selected choice
this section explains that you should be mentally and physically ready to be able to do what ever was the selected choice
I can't really give a good personal relation cause I haven't got past the last 2
step 6. evaluate the choice
this section is about what has this choice done to the relationship and how will it affect the relationship and all the different hats that advocated to you.
I still haven't got past one earlier but I will say I know about the devil on the shoulder I have quite a smart one he seems to convince me a lot.
step 7. wrap it up
this part is about making sure you make sure all conflict are being looked ate even after the first one is resolved and how to identify a few things that could occur or you should learn from .
this one seems like it very importain cause learning form an conflict is importain cause it'll help avoid a break up witch ill try use with my girlfriend