5.1 Principles of Verbal Messages

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denotation: meaning you'd find in a dictionary
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Connotation: emotional meaning

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Anonymous messages: author isn't identified

Onymous message: Example would be a picture of a ex-boyfriend (pictures give direct explanation of who it is and by)

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abstraction: entertainment

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Immediacy: the creation of closeness, a sense of togetherness, of oneness, between, speaker and listener.

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lying: act of sending messages with the intention of giving another person information you think is false.

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Liars Hold back: speak more slowly, take longer to respond to questions, and give less info and elaboration

Liars make less sense, smile less, and are more tense.

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Assertive messages: express your real thoughts. Ex: I don't agree that parents should feel their Kids fast food all the time.

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Truth bias: assuming the person is telling the truth (long term relationships)