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CHD CHAPTER 4: (GENDER AND LANGUAGE (MEN AND WOMEN COMMUNICATE FOR…
CHD CHAPTER 4:
GENDER AND LANGUAGE
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WHERE ROMANCE IS CONCERNED, IT'S COMPLICATED. UNDENIABLE
MEN DON'T SHOW THEIR FEELINGS. PARTLY TRUE, PARTLY FALSE
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WOMEN'S SPEECH IS TYPICALLY POWERLESS, AND MEN'S IS MORE POWERFUL. FALSE
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MEN AND WOMEN ARE HARDWIRED TO COMMUNICATE DIFFERENTLY, PARTLY TRUE, BUT LESS THAN MANY PEOPLE ASSUME
METAPHORICALLY SPEAKING, MEN ARE FROM MARS, AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS. FALSE
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QUESTIONS
CONFUSING
The concept makes me feel confusing is the disruptive language. The reasons are misleading examples, and small part from language learning difficulties. Another confusion from text is affiliation which is the result of complicated explanation.
CURIOSITY
The conception I feel curious about is that language is rule governed. At first glance, the title interests me because it's saying that language is well-governed and constructed by a whole organization of orders which I want to learn about.
SURPRISING
I was surprised that the power of language includes many aspects we would never expected such as names, status, etc. In addition, It is shocking that language has a category called misunderstanding.
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THE NATURE OF LANGUAGE
MEANINGS ARE IN PEOPLE, NOT WORDS
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CONNOTATIVE MEANINGS
Associations, thoughts, and feelings that a statement generates.
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THE POWER OF LANGUAGE
LANGUAGE SHAPES VALUES, ATTITUDES, AND BELIEFS
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LANGUAGE REFLECTS VALUES, ATTITUDES, AND BELIEFS
AFFILIATION
CONVERGENCE
Accommodating one's speaking style to another person, usually a person who is desirable or has higher status.
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EXAMPLES
FROM TEXT
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Power of language: "Excuse me, sir. I hate to say this, but I won't be able to turn in the assignment on time. I had a personal emergency and, well, it was just impossible to finish it by today. Would that be okay?" (seems powerless but useful)
FROM EXPERIENCE
Overly Abstract Language: I often use abstract language to avoid some request that can possibly have consequences. For example, "What do you think about my perfect craft(cooking)?" => "It is more unexpected than I imagined"