Life: Winter-Spring 2018
Family 👪
Make plans w/Jaleesa to hang out w/Moms in Spring
Incl. Mariama?
Partnership/Romance
2018 relationship goals w/D?
Money goals #
Car repairs - $500+ ✅
Family visits
Joanna ✅
Mama K (spring?)
Carla
Mark?
Tammy's daughter?
Kemi
Personal goals
Attend sex positive something
Year theme? (2017 was 'clarity')
Hot tubs w/Caro #
Learn a/b anxiety
Crowns (teeth) - 1 or 2? $476 per crown
Summer trip - 2K
New couch - $1K+
Increase emergency fund to 3 months
Save for move
Couples therapist
Ideas:
Safety
Sublime
Dr. Hamilton-Mason - 617-521-3911; 617-852-4435, not available until Feb 2018 - : ✅
Anniversary Trip
Montreal #
Friends
New friends
Cicely
Noah
Adam --son is moving in FL
Josie & family
Writing
Meet up/January re: writing ✅
Sharece
Rebecca
Patricia & family
Heather & Rowan
Kelly & family
Johnny Ming's project ❌
Sex Coach - Myisha Battle http://www.myishabattle.com/**text**
Caro & Kyle
LM2
Vacation (begin Sept 2017) 20 Days total
Sept 1 - Vaca - Maine
Sept 15 - Personal Day - J's wedding
Oct 31 - Vaca - EP Fenn School
Nov 3 & Nov 5 - Vaca - Plymouth Writing Retreat
Nov 27 - Vaca - TG holiday
Dec 18 - Vaca - EP UUA
Dec 27, 28, 29 - Vaca - Winter holiday
Jan 2 . & 3 - Vaca - NYE holiday
4 Days Remaining
Haidee & band
D&D friends - Alex, John
Career goals
INP Mentoring
Mobile ✅
Talk to Maria a/b ABC & EP ✅
Aunt Jane retires April 2018 ✅
(617) 276-5964 -Jens (Yens) - Cicely's therapist
School for Rowan
http://discoverbps.bostonpublicschools.org/
Hey gals, here is the website for bps, and figuring out which schools Rowan is eligible for. Once you look to see which ones are in your area,then you can look up each individual one and see what "tier" it is, meaning what its rating is, and what programs it has. budgets are determined school by school, so you can literally have two schools in walking distance from your house--one has amazing arts programs and offers Phys Ed, the other has no arts and no athletics.
It's better for kids to be in schools that go all the way to 8th grade or through high school--creates more of a community and when kids go through tougher years they already have a community of teachers who knows them. Not surprisingly, these schools have longer wait lists. I can't remember how many schools you put on the list for your lottery, but I believe you rank them in priority.
The charter schools each have their own individual lottery. For those, you'll really want to do research. Some of the charter schools have high rates of getting kids into college, but also have high rates of disciplining kids more than necessary (and have been accused of the school-to-prison pipeline)...kids can get kicked out of class for figeting, or stepping out of line at all. Other charter schools, like the one Scarlett goes to (NHCS) are focused on social and emotional learning and cater to all kinds of learners. Charter schools are not neighborhood schools. Any kid in the city of boston is elligilble to go to any charter school in the city of boston. BPS does the bussing. So that means, If Rowan gets in to NHCS for example, he would be bussed from JP to Dorchester.
My advice is this: Don't go crazy. Find schools that seem in line with what interests you and put him in the lottery. Don't have high expectations. You might get what you want, you might not. In august and september there is a big shuffle, and you might get offered something closer to what you want. Or, you can just opt to do regular daycare if you don't get what you want, and then do the lottery the following year. No matter what grade he is in, you can always participate in any lottery. So, you can always repeat the process. When they are little, it is less about school community, so you have a few years when you can shuffle him around and have other options...and then by the time he is really in elementary school you'll probably want a school community you'll feel good about, but by that time you will have probably had some choices that you feel good about.
And here's where you can start doing Charter School research. The charters I know the most about are NHCS and the conservatory lab charter; those are both the ones that have reputations for being more about emotional health and less about discipline and academics.
https://masscharterschools.org/schools/boston
I hope this helps!
Review material ✅
Commonwealth Therapy Assoc
Women owned
No couples therapy :-( (all booked)
Suggested by Annie
Feb 22 & 23 - Vaca - Sheridan
Apr 21 - Vaca - Interschool
40th Birthday
Ask for Muji diffuser ✅
Bike spoke cards ❌
Design & give away ❌
May 12 - Vaca - Winchester
New baby: Lena
Maybe stay/apt gets converted to 3 br
5 days 7/31-8/6