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Conflict Management (Evaluate the Choice (The second to last step is to…
Conflict Management
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Set the Stage
Conflicts should occur in private setting and not all over social media. 
It should just be you and the other person, because someone else may influence your decisions.
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I would be setting the stage if I took my personal conflict off of social media.
Wrap it Up
The conflict may be over, but there is still more that needs to be done for the relationship.
Use the conflict as a way to better improve yourself and the relationship as a whole.
It is important not to blow the situation way out of proportion, but instead keeping it in perspective.
Attacking your negative feelings will allow for less conflict within the future.
I would be seen wrapping up the conflict if I increased the exchange of rewards and cherishing behaviors to demonstrate my positive feelings.
Define the Conflict
Define both content and relationship issues, define the problem in specific terms, focus on the present, and empathize are all ways to define the conflict occurring.
After you have determined that you are going to fight, it is best to know what you are fighting about.
I would be defining conflict if I was to try and avoid mind reading and instead asking questions to better understand the problem.
It is important not to bring up past conflicts to try and win the present conflict.
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Identify Your Goals
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Avoiding breaking up or kissing and making up are different goals that can be reached through conflict management.
I would be identifying my goals if I was trying to avoid breaking up.
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