Chapter 7 - Emotional and Social Development in Infancy and Toddlerhood

Erikson's Theory of Infant and Toddler Personality: the quality of caregiving is the important factor in promoting successful development during infancy

Psychological conflict of the first year is BASIC TRUST vs MISTRUST

When the majority of care is sympathetic and loving, the first basic conflict of trust vs. mistrust, is resolved positively.

Trusting infant expects the world to be good and gratifying and therefore feels confident about venturing out and exploring the world. Mistrustful baby cannot count on kindness and compassion and therefore, protects themselves by withdrawing

For the next conflict, Freud believed that this was concerned mostly with toilet training, but Erikson thought that the desire of toddlers to exert independence and choose for themselves was more important.

Next stage is called AUTONOMY vs. SHAME AND DOUBT; which is positively directed when parents provide young children with suitable guidance and reasonable choices.

Successful resolution: parents do not criticize/attack them when children fail at new skills and meet assertions of independence with tolerance and understanding.

If parents are over- or undercontrolling, then the child feels forced or shamed and doubts his ability to control his impulses and act competently on their own

Emotional Development

Infants cannot tell us their feelings, so they use facial expressions to tell us what they want...but this is not reliable, because 1) people use diverse responses to express a particular emotion, 2) same general response can express several emotions, for example, a smile might convey joy, embarassment or contempt, depending on context

EMOTIONAL EXPRESSION cary with a person's developing capacities, goals, and context, meaning that researchers must interpret multiple cues in order to understand babies' emotions.

Development of Basic Emotions

BASIC EMOTIONS: universal emotions in humans; have a long evolutionary history of promoting survival

Fear

Anger

Surprise

Sadness

Interest

Disgust

Happiness

Emotions become clear and well-organized as children coordinate separate skills into more effective, emotionally expressive systems as the CNS develops and the child's goals and experiences change; emotional expressions become well-organized around 6 months of age

Sensitive, contingent caregiver communication, where parents selectively mirror aspects of the baby's diffuse emotional behavior, which helps construct emotional expressions that more closely resemble those of adults.

SOCIAL SMILE: appears at 6-10 weeks old, typically as response to parent's communication

LAUGHTER appears around 3-4 months and reflects faster processing of info than smiling does

Babies laugh and smile more when interacting with familiar people, strengthening bonds, several smiles develop for different reasons.

Frequency and intensity of infants increases with age. Babies want to control actions, and are more persistent about obtaining desired objects; get upset when this gets blocked, especially when it comes from caregivers who typically provide comfort. Anger can also be adaptive - when new motor capacities allow angry babies to defend themselves to overcome obstacles, and motivates caregivers to alleviate infant distress.

Babies often demonstrate this in response to pain, removal of an object, separation, or being deprived of a familiar, loving caregiver

Fear expressions increase during the second half of the first year; most frequent expression of fear is STRANGER ANXIETY

Factors that influence responses to strangers: temperament, past experiences with strengths, current situation

Infants use familiar caregivers as a SECURE BASE or point from which to explore, venturing into the environment and then returning for emotional support. Encounters with strangers follow 2 approaches: (1) approach with interest and friendliness or 2) avoidance due to fear

Understanding and Responding to the Emotions of Others

EMOTIONAL CONTAGION - babies first respond to others' emotions through this automatic process where they match the feeling of the caregiver in face to face communication

OPERANT CONDITIONING - the other mechanism that researchers believe infants gradually develop emotional responses

Change in infants' emotional responsiveness at different ages

3-4 months: babies gaze, smile, or vocalize; expect socail partner to respond in kind; reply with positive faces and voices; more aware of emotional range

4-5 months: babies distinguish between positive and negative emotion; become better at matching specific factial and vocal displays of emotion

SOCIAL REFERENCING - babies begin to actively seek emotional info from a trusted person in an uncertain situation. Reading the adult tells the baby how to respond if they are uncertain. They compare their own and others' assessments of evens and can adjust accordingly.

SELF CONSCIOUS EMOTIONS: Second, higher-order set of feelings; they involve injury to or enhancement of our sense of self. Require instruction from adults in when to feel proud, ashamed or guilty.

Embarassment

Envy

Shame

Pride

Guilt

Beginnings of Emotional Self Regulation

SELF-REGULATION: refers to the strategies we use to adjust our emotional state to a comfortable level of intensity so we can accomplish our goals

EFFORTFUL CONTROL: voluntary, effortful management of emotions, which develops gradually with the assistance of caregivers and the development of the PFC

Caregivers can support development of emotional self-regulation by avoiding: responding impatiently, angrily, or waiting too long to intervene inadvertently reinforce baby's rapid rise to intense distress, making it difficult to soothe the baby and for the baby to learn to calm himself.

Increased vocabulary gives toddlers more language to talk about their feelings.

Temper tantrums occur because toddlers cannot control the intense anger that often arises when an adult rejects their demands

Temperament and Development

TEMPERAMENT: early appearing, stable individual differences in reactivity and self-regulation. Shaped strongly by parenting practices, and can increase or decrease a child's chances of experiencing psychological problems

REACTIVITY - refers to the quickness and intensity of emotional arousal, attention, and motor activity.

SELF-REGULATION - refers to strategies that modify that reactivity

Structure of Temperament

Thomas and Chess describe three types of children based on temperamental differences; approximately 35% of children do not fit any specific category but show a unique blend of temperamental characteristics

DIFFICULT CHILD - irregular in daily routines; reacts negatively and intensely; highest risk for adjustment problems

SLOW TO WARM UP CHILD - inactive; reacts mildly to environmental stimuli

EASY CHILD - quickly establishes regular routines in infancy; adapts to new experiences

Rothbart's dimensions of temperament

FEARFUL DISTRESS - wariness/distress in response to intense or novel stimuli

IRRITABLE DISTRESS - extent of fussing, crying, and distress when desires are frustrated

ATTENTION SPAN/PERSISTENCE - duration of orienting or interest

POSITIVE AFFECT - frequency of expression of happiness or pleasure

ACTIVITY LEVEL - level of gross motor activity

EFFORTFUL CONTROL - capacity to voluntarily suppress a dominant, reactive response in order to plan and execute a more adaptive response; predicts favorable development

Measuring Temperament

Use of parent reports

Advantages: convenient, take advantage of parents' depth of knowledge about their child across many stimuli

Subjective and biased

Difficult to measure in lab settings - may be difficult to capture all relevant information, children may respond differently when being observed or in the lab setting

Development of Shyness and Sociability: modestly impacted by shyness and sociability

Dispositions become less extreme over time - genetic makeup and child-rearing experiences jointly influenced stability and changes in temperament

AMYGDALA is believe to be the structure that contributes to individual differences in arousal. It is the inner brain structure that controls avoidance reactions, inhibited children (aroused easily) and uninhibited children (little arousal)

Physiological correlates of approach-withdrawal behavior

Pupil dilation

Blood pressure

Salivary cortisol levels

Heart rate

Skin surface temperature

Pattern of frontal lobe activation

Cold, intrusive parenting increases anxiety, or overprotective parenting makes it difficult to overcome an urge to retreat. Can lead to long term excessive cautiousness, low self-esteem and loneliness.

Stable and predictive after age 3

Genetic influences

Identical twins are more similar than fraternal twins in temperament and personality

Ethnic differences: Asian babies tend to be less active, irritable and vocal, more easily soothed when upset and better at quieting themselves

Gender differences: Girls exert more effortful control. Boys are more active and daring, more irritable when frustrated, more likely to express high-intensity pleasure in play

Environmental Influences - we know that parenting styles have a large effect on temperament; parental warmth and less harshness leads to children who are more positive in mood and social behavior

Sex differences: Boys are viewed as stronger and are encouraged to play as such, daughters are taught to seek help and physical closenes

Ethnic differences: Japanese parents respond to babies to maximize calmness; American parents value excitement and respond to children accordingly

Twins typically seek ways to differ from one another

Temperament and Child Rearing: The Goodness-of-Fit Model

GOODNESS-OF-FIT MODEL: Explains how temperament and environment can together produce favorable outcomes involves creating child-rearing environments that recognize each child's temperament while encouraging more adaptive functioning.

Children with difficult temperaments are at high risk for future adjustment problems: they are less likely to receive sensitive caregiving, so parents resort to more punitive discipline (decreasing development of effortful control), so children respond with defiance and disobedience. The practices sustain themselves and increase children's irritable, conflict ridden style.

Development of Attachment

ATTACHMENT: the strong, affectionate tie we have for special people in our lives that leads us to experience pleasure and joy when we interact with them and to be comforted by their nearness in times of stress.

Feeding is thought to be an important context where infants and caregivers build a close emotional bond, but it is not dependent on it.

Bowlby's Ethological Theory: recognizes attachment as an evolved response that promotes survival, and is the most widely accepted view does not depend on hunger satisfaction.

Phases of Bowlby's Ethological Theory

"ATTACHMENT IN THE MAKING" PHASE: Infants start to respond differently to a familiar caregiver than to a stranger.

"CLEAR-CUT" ATTACHMENT PHASE: Attachment to the familiar caregiver is evident, and infants display SEPARATION ANXIETY.

PREATTACHMENT PHASE: Infants are not yet attached to their mother and do not mind being left with an unfamiliar adult.

FORMATION OF A RECIPROCAL RELATIONSHIP: Separation anxiety declines as children gain an understanding of the parent's comings and goings and can predict his or her return.

INTERNAL WORKING MODEL: set of expectations about the availability of attachment figures, their likelihood of providing support during times of stress, and the self's interactions with those figures.

Eventually becomes a part of personality by serving as a guide for all future close relationships.

Measuring the Security of Attachment

STRANGE SITUATION: designed by Mary Ainsworth, most widely used technology technique for measuring the quality of attachment between 1-2 years of age

Attachment classifications from the Strange Situation

ATTACHMENT Q-SORT: alternative to Strange Situation, valid from 1-5 years of age

AVOIDANT: Before separation, these infants seem unresponsive to the parent. When she leaves, they react to the stranger in much the same way as to the parent. Upon her return, they are slow to greet her.

RESISTANT: Before separation, these infants seek closeness to the parent and fail to explore. When she returns, they display angry behaviors, may continue to cry after before picked up and cannot be easily comforted.

SECURE: Before separation, infants use parent as secure base. They are upset by the parent's absence, and they seek contact and are easily comforted when she returns.

DISORGANIZED: When the parent returns, these infants show confused, contradictory behaviors, such as looking away while being held.

Stability of Attachment

Increased stressors and decreased lack of supports are associated with decreased SES and decreased attachment

Securely attached babies are more likely to maintain their attachment status.

Exception is DISORGANIZED ATTACHMENT - they experience negative caregiving, disrupting emotional self-regulation so severely that they are ambivalent to parents; very stable attachment state

Factors that affect attachment security

Quality of caregiving

Baby's characteristics

Early availability of a consistent caregiver

Family context (including parents' internal working models)

SENSITIVE CAREGIVING: responding promptly, consistently and appropriately to infants and holding them tenderly; leads to secure attachments

Caregiving of insecurely attached infants: less physical contact, handle babies awkwardly or in a "routine" manner, sometimes resentful/rejecting in the face of infant distress

INTERACTIONAL SYNCHRONY: Sensitively tuned "emotional dance" in which the caregiver responds to infant signals in a well-timed, rhythmic appropriate fashion. Separates the experiences of secure from insecure babies.

Flexible and relaxed style of communication where emotional mismatches are accepted and repaired; increased likelihood of returning to synchronous state.

Among maltreated infants, disorganized attachment is especially high.

Stressors can undermine attachment indirectly by interfering with parental sensitivity, by altering family's emotional climate and by disrupting familiar daily routines.

The way that we VIEW our childhoods affects how we raise our children. Being able to discuss with objectivity and balance tends to produce parents with securely attached children.

American infants placed in full time child care before 12 months are more likely to display insecure attachment

Factors that influence the relationship between child care and attachment quality

Family circumstances

Quality and extent of child-care

Attachment quality

Ways that child-care settings can foster attachment security

Small group size

Caregivers educated about child development and child rearing

Low caregiver-child ratios

Multiple attachments

Differences in parent-child interaction

FATHERS: energetic, novel play, playmate role, substantial increase in involvement

MOTHERS: conversation, gentle play, caregiver role, increased participation in workplace

WORKING MOTHERS: play more actively; spouses share in caregiving role more than in past and share household responsibilities

Warm marital bonds, supportive coparenting and shared belief that men are capable of nurturing infants increases fathers' caregiving and involvement with babies.

SKIPPED-GENERATION FAMILY: families where children live with their grandparents but apart from their parents. Happens most in African-American, Hispanic and Native-American groups.

Stresses of parenting role for grandparents

Children typically have a lot of other learning and emotional/behavioral difficulties

Parents interfere with grandparents bringing up children

Increased financial stress

Significant change in circumstances - less time for spouses, friends and leisure at a time that they planned on having more.

Effects of new babies on older child-parent relationships

Positive: emotional bond grows between siblings; older children offer comfort and are attachment figures; become playmates

Negative: Increase in demanding, clingy, naughty behavior. Decrease in attachment security.

Ways in which mothers can promote positive relationships between infants and their preschool age siblings

Handle sibling misbehavior with patience

Discuss baby's wants and needs

Spend extra time with the older child

Express positive emotion toward your partner and engage in joint problem solving

Effects of Paternal Warmth in Development: fathers' warmth toward their children predicts later cognitive, emotional and social competencies as strongly as mothers' warmth

Factors that promote paternal warmth

The amount of time fathers spend near infants and giving expressions of caring and affections

Gratifying marriages increase paternal confidence, causing more time spent with and more interactions with infants

From Attachment to Peer Sociability

Coordinated interactions with peers result in imitative, turn-taking games that aid verbal communication. Start to use words to describe what they are doing.

Babies learn how to send and interpret emotional signals from interactions with sensitive adults. These children engage in more positive and extended peer exchanges, increase socially competent behavior as preschoolers.

Attachment and Later Development: Sustained attachment security promotes all aspects of children's development.

Preschool ratings of securely attached babies by their teachers: they were viewed as being increased in self-esteem, social skills and empathy; decrease in behavior problems; by age 11, they had more favorable relationships with peers, closer friendships and better social skills.

Disorganized attachment is consistently related to fear, anxiety, anger and aggression

Self-Development

Infants' self awareness is limited to and expressed only in perception and action

Look longer at reserved view of legs - understand that their body is a distinct entity, and are interested in novel views of their own body

Look more at video images of others - indicating that they distinguish between them and treat the other person as a potential social partner

At age 2, self-recognition is happening. Children point to themselves in photos, refer to themselves by name or with a personal pronoun ("I," "me")

Securely attached toddlers display more complex self-related during play (affectionate), greater knowledge of their own physical features, and they are better at social reasoning.

EMPATHY: the ability to understand another's emotional state and feel with that person, or respond emotionally in a similar way

Self-awareness leads to the first efforts to understand another's perspective, where toddlers increasingly appreciate others' intentions, feelings and desires

Categorizing the Self

By 2 years of age, categories that kids use to refer to themselves and others

Sex - boy or girl

Physical characteristics - big or strong

Age - baby, boy, or man

Good and badness - I good girl

When toddlers start using categories, they select and play in a more involved way with toys that are stereotype for their own gender.

Self Control

Developmental milestones essential for the development of self control

Must have representational and memory capacities to remember instructions.

Must have a firm sense of self

Must think of themselves as separate, autonomous beings who direct their own actions

Even when toddlers become capable of COMPLIANCE, they do not always obey requests and demands

Children advanced in ATTENTION and LANGUAGE are often better than their peers at delaying gratification

Ways to encourage the development of compliance and self-control

Respond to self-controlled behavior with verbal and physical approach

Encourage selective and sustained attention

Offer many prompts and reminders

Support language development

Provide advance notice when the toddler must stop an enjoyable activity

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Respond to the toddler with sensitivity and encouragement