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Sustained Trauma - Fear of Loss, of Physical and Emotional Pain, of…
Sustained Trauma - Fear of Loss, of Physical and Emotional Pain, of Abandonment leading to multi-layered neurosis trying to mitigate risk / insecurity
Meeting and Solving problems is painful ! - I realise that I am not in total control and that there is a risk of exposing myself once more to childhood angst - of being vulnerable.
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All children have a fear of abandonment/pain - it can feel like a death - to be threatened with abandonment - leaves you feeling the world is dangerous and insecure and must be prevented - the risk must be eradicated.
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If I Love something, it is of value, if it's of value it is valuable.
If you feel loved, you feel valued, you feel valuable. What and Whom do I Love? - Myself?
Disconnect, Isolation, Separation Self-sufficiency -
Self Loathing / Disgust, Cycle of Shame
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Image Management - a coping strategy - to hide me- to reject or compensate for 'the perceived flaws'