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Everyday Conversations (Apologies (Be specific (Say what you are sorry for…

- - - - Compliments that are to extreme may be seen as dishonest
    - - Say what your complimenting
      - For example, say something like "I really like your shirt!"
    - - Say what you mean
    - - Give a personal reason why you are complimenting someone
  - - - Totally deny it
      - Minimize it
      - Ignore it
    - - With a smile
      - Saying "thank you"
      - Personal reflection
- - - - Give advice with the qualifications it requires
    - - Seek feedback after giving advice
      - For example, after giving advice say something like "does that make sense?"
    - - Try to feel what the other person is feeling
    - - Don't tell them seeker what to do by saying "should"
      - For example, say things like "you could" or "you might"
    - - Listen to the speakers thoughts and feelings
  - - - Don't retaliate or criticize the advice giver
    - - Talk about the advice with the giver
    - - Express your appreciation to the advice giver
      - For example, when someone gives me advice, I always tell them how thankful I am that they are willing to help me and give me advice.
    - - Accept the advice. If you don't like it, don't follow it