I was surprised by the communicative development models most of all. Although once broken down the steps are fairly obvious, it is a way of thinking about closeness that i've never really thought about before. It was supper interesting to look at, however, because I could identify almost exactly where some of my newer, and some of my fading, relationships are on the spectrum. I was also surprised to some degree by the dialectical tensions, but defiantly not to the same degree as the developmental models. This is defiantly a section that I wish went more in depth, and I would love to find out more about them.